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How should I deal with my boyfriends female friend(s) ? Do I have anything to worry a


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Im struggling with my bfs female friends. He 26 but still somewhat of a socially akward nerdy guy who doesnt have alot of relationship experience. I can see how he would have many female friends because hes just fun to be around and gives good advice and super comapssionate ect...

 

I can tell he likes me a whole lot.. he gets so happy and affectionate when he comes to see me. This should stop my worrying right? He even said im the only one he sees a future with ...and all his friends are shocked he got a girl like me. lets just say for visulaization... in highschool he would be the cute geek and id be the nice cheerleader. ...but I worry..he says he loves me and wants me in his life for a long time and that his femlae friend is a good buddy, everytime one of them text he tells me right away, most of the time he will tell me if they hang out, (not always though) . But still i worry about his female friends..he spends time with them a lot and one even hangs at his place to chill...idk what to do. Should i trust him or leave?

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It depends on how he acts around them & how he handles you & them. If you are clearly queen bee, just because they exist don't panic. Do make sure these are just friends & not EXs who he now calls friends.

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It's not really a case of should you trust him more a case of do you trust him?

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From what you said, it sounds like you're ok! The fact that he tells you when he hangs out with them is a very good sign. It sounds like you're just a little insecure. I don't mean for that to sound rude. I am insecure sometimes too.

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