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As some of you know, I started a thread about a misaligned attempt at trying to come to terms with understanding the male psyche. It wasn't well received, and I understand why. I'm just broken hearted, confused and trying to cope just like everybody else is in this forum. I apologize if I offended anyone.

 

It's just hard to come to terms, and move on, when you gave a relationship 200%, and the other person succumbed to the temptation of what "alternatives" are available on the internet. The one thing I do know is, I am done with intimate relationships. There is nothing left of my heart. And it's becoming increasingly hard to trust people anymore. I don't mean to be Debbie Downer. But it's the truth. Although I have read some deep and inspiring thoughts on this forum. That's why I keep coming back.

 

Thanks for listening.

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"When you believe love has left the world, it is a sign that it has first been abandoned by your heart."

 

You can never hope to 'fix' what's out there.

You need first to address the hidden malfunction within.

 

Once your internal workings are finely-tuned, then whatever happens out there becomes far less significant.

 

Trust me on this one.

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I feel like doing the opposite of you. I feel like doing FWB with an old companion who I have no feelings for so I don't get hurt. If I'm intimate with a new guy, I'm bound to get dumped and hurt again. I have to protect my heart.

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I feel like doing the opposite of you. I feel like doing FWB with an old companion who I have no feelings for so I don't get hurt. If I'm intimate with a new guy, I'm bound to get dumped and hurt again. I have to protect my heart.

 

Me too . Smh I don't think I can deal with this EVER again

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