ForwardFocused Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Hey everyone, not sure if this is the best thread to post in but I wanted to get your opinion(s). It's not pertaining to someone I'm dating, but I'm currently working on healing+ self-improvement and I want to start dating again in the near future. I called a friend of mine today, but it turns out that one of the numbers I have saved for him in my phone is no longer his. When I called, a guy answered the phone. I asked for my friend and he told me I had the wrong number. I said sorry and hung up. However, an hour or so later, I receive a message on whatsapp from a number I did not recognize, saying 'Hey'. The profile pic was of a female who was taking a selfie. Did not recognize the person, so I asked 'who is this?'. The person gave me a male name. Confused, I said that they had the wrong number. They responded saying 'no I do not', then went on to say to me that I just called and asked for *my friends name* and said that my voice 'really sounds sweet' and he would 'love to meet the person behind that cute voice'. Keep in mind that this number he contacted me on through whatsapp is a completely different number from the one I called. He has called me three times since (on the original number), but I did not pick up because I was at work. I'm somewhat flattered that he would go out of his way to contact me just based a few words I said to him?...but I'm wondering if this is all just creepy and bordering red flag territory? Should I ignore him? I don't want to be mean... 1
LostOnes05 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 That's creepy AF. The whatsapp has a woman's picture too?! Nope, block and hope he doesn't figure out Google voice. 5
Gemma1 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 The way he approached the subject is creepy and the fact that he called three times is super creepy. Block him. 3
GR4 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Very creepy. Block his number, you have no idea who this person is. 2
preraph Posted March 11, 2016 Posted March 11, 2016 That's creepy and he's just someone random. Block him. 1
Erik30 Posted March 11, 2016 Posted March 11, 2016 Yes it's creepy and weird. Especially him calling a complete stranger multiple times, and then also going through the trouble of adding you on WhatsApp (with a different phone no less) after your exchange.... No normal person would do that. Block both numbers asap. 1
neowulf Posted March 11, 2016 Posted March 11, 2016 Yep. Throwing my hat in with the "block" vote. That just sounds predatory. 1
truth_seeker Posted March 11, 2016 Posted March 11, 2016 BLOCK... BLOCK... BLOCK! Amazing how everyone is in unison with this person being a creep yet OP is flattered and concerned about being mean. I just don't get some women...
Author ForwardFocused Posted March 11, 2016 Author Posted March 11, 2016 Thanks everyone for your quick reponses. I was definitely leaning more towards his behavior being creepy! Didn't think to block him, but I'll take your advice. 1
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