nsg1122 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Short story: Relationship was for 3.5 years. I'm the dumpee. Firsts for both of us Age: 24 (me); 22 (ex gf) Broke up 5 weeks ago. Have talked only once since break up when I went over to her place. - She recently joined medical school (August) in the same city as I'm living. - Break up came out of nowhere - Assuming it to be GIGS or a quarter life crisis Was informed by someone whose the ex of my ex's best friend that my ex has been crying every day and taking it really hard. BUT he told me to get over her since his ex told him that my ex used to go to medical school parties and tell everyone that she didn't have a bf. This really crushed me. There are actions that she did in the months leading up to the breakup that make me believe it but I'm also not sure if I'm just reading into things to prove that she was a b*tch. I'm thinking that the person who told me may have lied or may not have the entire story. He is a close friend of mine now since we both got dumped by girls who are best friends. I feel like he maybe feeding me stuff to help me get over her since he seems to have gone complete "DONT GIVE A F*CK" mode about his ex. I want to ask my ex or confront her about this. But I dont know what good will come out of it. She could just say no, that she didn't do it. But what's killing me is that I have no choice but to believe what everyone says even if it isn't true since I can't ask her or find out.
Simon Phoenix Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 I would assume it is true and even if it's not, the fact that she broke up with you is 100 percent true. Asking her is pointless -- either she's going to avoid the question (most likely result), ignore you completely, lie to you or tell you that yes, that's what she used to tell people. All of those scenarios are terrible scenarios. If people are telling you that she's done, then she's done. There isn't a conspiracy to keep you from her.
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