Luci Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Last year I was visiting family in other country during 4 months. I met a guy and immediately we made click. I spent most of my free hours with him and he was really amazing. I met his family and his friends. Everything was so amazing but I came back to my home country 2 months ago and he just texted me 3 times during this months. Now it has been 1 month and I haven't heard about him and that hurts me but I do not want to write him first because I feel like he really never cared about me. One of his last messages said "don't worry about me having a girlfriend and even if I have one I will dump her because of you, I don't care who she is, she can't be better than you" 1
Methodical Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 One of his last messages said "don't worry about me having a girlfriend and even if I have one I will dump her because of you, I don't care who she is, she can't be better than you" How old are you? Him? I'd take his message to mean if you are ever in his country again, he'll make himself available... I mean that as in "a booty call," not relationship. He basically told you he's moving on and intends to see other women, hence "if I have one I'll dump her for you." Yes, you were a fling and I wouldn't place any stock in anything coming from this limited encounter. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Yes, I think you were a fling. Actions speak far louder than words. And there haven't even been any words for the past month. I think he probably enjoyed the time you spent together but also realizes it's not realistic to build something more when you don't even live in the same country. Sorry OP, I would file this away as a fun vacation memory and forget about him. 1
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