TrustedthenBusted Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 So I looked at my watch this morning and saw that it was March 9. Then I thought...." March 9th....hmmm....do I have an appointment? Kids ortho? taxes due? Why the heck does this date stick out.....what am I forgetting here? And then it hit me. It's my 7th D-Day Anniversary. And you know what? For maybe the first time, I really don't care. Please, no need to send gifts. Not giving a crap today is gift enough. 9
Mr. Lucky Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Please, no need to send gifts. Not giving a crap today is gift enough. Ironic, I remember your post last year about the "watch" discussion for your 15th anniversary. Is the "not give a crap" a reflection on the current state of your marriage or that you've put the infidelity behind you ??? Mr. Lucky
Author TrustedthenBusted Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 (edited) Ironic, I remember your post last year about the "watch" discussion for your 15th anniversary. Is the "not give a crap" a reflection on the current state of your marriage or that you've put the infidelity behind you ??? Mr. Lucky It's a reflection of the whole thing not having any negative affect on me this year, as it has in the past. Even once I realized it, I was like " meh....wow...7 years....hmmm.." And that was it. There will still be "stuff" that happens. But this feels like now there is one thing fewer. ***Edit. Your post prompted me to go back and read that whole thread. Wow! I had completely forgotten about that whole thing! Guess that goes to show that sometimes, coming here and venting is good because you can let it all out, and then be done with it. Edited March 10, 2016 by TrustedthenBusted
puzzleddad67 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Congratulations. My "Aw f***" moments seem to be getting further apart. Had one this weekend when I saw my friends facebooking their trip into the city together. Its a couples thing. Last year Me and my ex went. This year obviously not. One of my buddies texted me that I was missed on the trip. That was both good and bad. Good my friends think of me. Bad that it was more reminders of what could have been. Overall Im mostly good tho. Cant wait for the day I actually forget. Thanks. Your post shows me there will be that day.
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