Dejay Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Ever since school started about 6 months ago I found this girl in my class to be pretty special. She's very beautiful, really friendly and unlike other girls she doesn't seem to be that obsessed with social media. That's what I like about her. A month ago me and my girlfriend broke up. Since I had a girlfriend all the time until this point, I never developed feelings for this girl in my class or was interested in having a relationship with her. But last week, I realized that I have feelings for her. We haven't spoken that much. We've only talked about school related stuff so far and even though she seems to really enjoy talking with me it probably doesn't mean anything. I'm also pretty sure that she's looking at me pretty often. But I can't be sure about that since I know how common it is to think that someone you're interested in is looking at you. Sometimes when I walk in the hallway and pass by her we look at each other and then she looks down on the floor. Could that mean something? She isn't a shy girl. Anyway, I really like this girl and would love to have a relationship with her. But since she's in my class every day, and probably will be for another 2 years, I'm quite scared to approach her. Many people say that the worst thing that can happen is that she says "no" but that's not really true in my case. Why? Because if she rejects me it might become really awkward between us and I'm pretty sure she will tell her friends etc. My friends will probably hear it sooner or later as well and I don't feel like having people making fun of me just because I got rejected. I've done some research and it seems like my best bet would be to try become her friend first. But how? It's hard simply because everyone's got their own "groups" that they hang with at school. She's always hanging with a few girls, and I'm always hanging with a few guys. Can anyone advice me what to do in this situation? Like I said we barely talk unless it's something school related so I'm not sure how to start talking with her all of sudden without making it awkward. I really want her so any advice on what you would do in this situation is appreciated.
smackie9 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Next time you are in the hallway and you make eye contact, be bold and go up to her and introduce yourself. Most of the time that is all it takes is a small risk for big things to happen. Saying something as simple as you have a beautiful smile gets the attraction flowing. And of course some confidence.
Author Dejay Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Next time you are in the hallway and you make eye contact, be bold and go up to her and introduce yourself. Most of the time that is all it takes is a small risk for big things to happen. Saying something as simple as you have a beautiful smile gets the attraction flowing. And of course some confidence. Thanks for the advice! But she already knows who I am as we see each other every day. So introducing myself to her wouldn't make that much sense. I get your point though.. I'll try start a conversation with her and see how it goes from there. Forgot to add in the first post that we're both 17 in case someone is wondering.
smackie9 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Well then say hi to her and tell she looks beautiful today, and smile, good eye contact. Simple how is your day going, or you want to hang out at lunch. Show her some funny videos on your phone to make her laugh. Entertain her. Just don't wait too long to ask her out, NOT hang out.
Author Dejay Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Sounds good. I'll probably say hi and give her a compliment one day to see how she reacts.
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