Amanda9133 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Hi! My ex is really confusing me and I hope some of you could help me with understanding what he really wants. We broke up about two months ago. Since then, we've met up and then everything is like we're a couple: we have sex, kissing etc. But we have a much better time together than we ever had when we were in a relationship. He haven't told people we've broken up, only a few, like his closest friends. Haven't deleted any of our pics together on Facebook either. He's saying he doesn't want to meet anyone new. He calls me, tagging me in funny "realationship-stuff" on Facebook, snaps me etc. We went on an activity together, and it was really cosy. What went wrong in our relationship, was that we spent too much time in the couch together. Not making an effort to make it exciting anymore. I also got sick, and had poor econony because I had no job. Do you guys think that we can be a couple again? He's saying he doesn't want a relationship yet.
aquietgirl20 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Seems fishy. Why doesn't he want a relationship ? That Is the question Hi! My ex is really confusing me and I hope some of you could help me with understanding what he really wants. We broke up about two months ago. Since then, we've met up and then everything is like we're a couple: we have sex, kissing etc. But we have a much better time together than we ever had when we were in a relationship. He haven't told people we've broken up, only a few, like his closest friends. Haven't deleted any of our pics together on Facebook either. He's saying he doesn't want to meet anyone new. He calls me, tagging me in funny "realationship-stuff" on Facebook, snaps me etc. We went on an activity together, and it was really cosy. What went wrong in our relationship, was that we spent too much time in the couch together. Not making an effort to make it exciting anymore. I also got sick, and had poor econony because I had no job. Do you guys think that we can be a couple again? He's saying he doesn't want a relationship yet.
Simon Phoenix Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 Not confusing at all. You've been demoted to FWB. He can hook up with you whenever he wants without being in a relationship with you and can do that until he decides to pursue something else. He's using your desperation and you're letting him. He gets all the physical benefits of having a girlfriend without actually having a girlfriend. It's a no-brainer for him. Now, why are you so willing to allow yourself to be used in such a way? 2
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