1Jessie86 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 I have a super attractive neighbor that I only see every once in awhile, as we pass each other in the parking lot because we have assigned parking spots next to each other. I'm not even sure if he's single or not. I never see him with a partner. I haven't even had the chance to speak with him yet. I'm super shy. This could be a disaster. Any ideas on approaching, starting up a conversation and eventually possibly asking him out? Link to post Share on other sites
Lady2163 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 So....I was wondering, if you're not seeing anyone, would you like to go out for coffee or drinks this weekend? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Smile and say "hi" when you see him next. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Smile and say "hi" when you see him next. Start simple, build a rapport... See if he's interested, ideally, if he IS, he'll take the hint and start to lead. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SammySammy Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Don't hint. Introduce yourself and make it clear you would like to get to know him better. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Lol. This was me last year. We hit it off had great mutual chemistry and so we texted and he invited me to hang out. Despite having a gf which I later discovered. Link to post Share on other sites
ff12343 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 I have a super attractive neighbor that I only see every once in awhile, as we pass each other in the parking lot because we have assigned parking spots next to each other. I'm not even sure if he's single or not. I never see him with a partner. I haven't even had the chance to speak with him yet. I'm super shy. This could be a disaster. Any ideas on approaching, starting up a conversation and eventually possibly asking him out? Ever hear the expression, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take"? Apply it here. Start with 'hi' and work your way up. Link to post Share on other sites
RRM321 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Take his parking spot. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 I have one too. Was going to flirt until I saw his girlfriend come over, so check for that first. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 leave a note written in the third person, under his windshield wiper. "I happen to know the girl who parks next to you, actually likes you. Next time you see her, talk to her! Signed, an anonymous match-maker!!" That way, you get him to do the approaching and find out all you need to know! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Just go up and talk to him. The direct approach works best with guys. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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