Author Fruitee Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 ^ I have to disagree. Because guys who have made table reservations for dinner etc have stood me up. So I dont even believe in that anymore. That if someone plans the next date straight away or whatever it might still go to ****. So I dont know what to believe anymore. You can never really know if they are serious or not in my opinion.
Author Fruitee Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Btw he didnt follow up because he didnt have time.. I mean I followed up pretty much straight away. Lol.
Author Fruitee Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Well I decided to ask him then because I didnt wanna waste my time. He said he is looking for relationship but dont know with who. So I guess it means no to me then.
Bee4Shine Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Do you think it is best to invest your time and energy in someone who doesn't know what they want? Is it really good or healthy? This kind of a relationship draws you into a mess and complicates your life. We are designed to choose someone and love our choice with commitment, kindness, understanding and compassion. Can you seek someone who will willing to give you what you were designed for?
Author Fruitee Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 ^ If you read my last message I just wrote that its over. And I am seeking for someone who is worth my time but it is kind of hard to find anyone worth my time.. or who is really ready to invest his time on me..
Author Fruitee Posted March 15, 2016 Author Posted March 15, 2016 Oh man.. today he actually confirmed our date and actually asked me to join him in activities.. so i dont know what to think of him anymore
Author Fruitee Posted April 22, 2016 Author Posted April 22, 2016 Small update.. So I havent seem him in like a month. We texted some stuff during this time period. He said e.g. that I fuss too much. But also said we should spend weekend together to see how it goes. And then suddenly invited me over even we had planned that weekend for next month because of work and travel etc. We are both quite busy. But since he is suggesting e.g. weekends together it might mean he is at least seeing me as possible gf? If I dont for example fuss too much over him.
Author Fruitee Posted July 18, 2016 Author Posted July 18, 2016 I need new opinions on this matter. Since eventually we only had those 2 dates. He has been asking me to come over. And sometimes or most of the time he is straight forward asking sex and I keep saying no. Then sometimes he asks me out to do things. But I havent seen him. Now we do have stuff planned for tomorrow. But when I have been talking to him he have had totally wrong impression of me. E.g. I only sit at home and do nothing else. He explained some stuff like what he wants of a gf and he thinks it wouldnt work out with me because Im not as sporty as he is and when he goes to exercise I would just stay at home. Its not entirely true. But partly yes. I dont know what to think anymore. I feel like now he is chasing me but dont see me as potential gf because of our different hobbies.
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