chesca210 Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. And i was devastated. N i guess he took it hard too because hes been drinking since. Well weve been texting every few days and at first he told me to give up but a couple of days ago i told him i really did love him n he said "i know i love you too". N i asked him "but in all honesty u want me to give up cuz theres no chance of me winning u back, right?" an he said "theres a chance." Thats good, right? But i asked him how my chances are so far and he said he didnt know, that its like asking when we're gonna get back together. Is this good for me so far? Him saying "when" instead of "if"? Please help.
Redhead14 Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. And i was devastated. N i guess he took it hard too because hes been drinking since. Well weve been texting every few days and at first he told me to give up but a couple of days ago i told him i really did love him n he said "i know i love you too". N i asked him "but in all honesty u want me to give up cuz theres no chance of me winning u back, right?" an he said "theres a chance." Thats good, right? But i asked him how my chances are so far and he said he didnt know, that its like asking when we're gonna get back together. Is this good for me so far? Him saying "when" instead of "if"? Please help. Why did you break up? How long were you seeing each other? How old are the two of you?
Author chesca210 Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 I was too controlling, ironically i got that under control now, we were together 3.5 years,
TaraMaiden2 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 1: You don't get a controlling attitude under control in less than two weeks. 2: You're both very young and still putting feelers out. Your ages would indicate that this may be a wonderful love, but it's doubtful it will be THE great love. Consider being on your own for a while and grounding your temperament, and learning more about yourself, before involving complex emotions and those of others, into the mix. (You'll hate the above advice, but you'll thank me for it in the future.) Lastly, please feel free to use proper words on the forum. It's not a text or a phone, so abbreviations aren't necessary. Consider that we have a multi-national attendance here; English is the forum language. Many people from other parts of the world, don't 'get' English 'text-speak'... Thank you. Good luck!
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