Author AnyTakers Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Well there's the reason he keeps her photo. AnyTakers, when someone tells you how they feel, there's generally no reason to second guess them. He also told her that as well though (I want to be by myself), which is odd.
basil67 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 He also told her that as well though (I want to be by myself), which is odd. Yes, it might be odd - but who are we to question what he needs for himself?
ThisisIt606 Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 The reason I am reluctant to rock the boat is because we aren't "in a relationship", so I don't want to come off as someone who is making him feel like I am "locking him down". He made a statement saying he wants to be by himself right now as far as relationships go, so that right there, told me that he likely still has feelings for her and he probably is going to go back to her, I dunno. OK, that's fair as you aren't in a relationship. But I do think it's OK to ask if he still has feelings for is ex as he is dating you/a new girl. Even if you aren't official you are physically going out on dates and spending time with each other, so that definitely counts for something. However his statement of wanting to be by himself concerns me. He's flat out telling you (with that statement) and showing you (with the pic of the ex) that he's not ready for a new relationship and is still figuring out his feelings of how to get back with his ex or move on. Seems pretty messy... I'm sure you can find a less complicated guy without as much fresh relationship baggage. 1
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