Bios Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 So around September last year was when this started. A girl from my class who I don't really talk to suddenly started initiating conversations with me. For example, she'd compliment my part in a presentation and she'd say hi every time I see her (she would only say Hi to me, and ignore the other people i'm with). I know this sounds stupid but, WE NEVER TALK AT ALL. We have been in the same class for a couple years and she has never talked to me and now out of the blue, she would initiate all our conversations. I am confused if she is just being friendly or if maybe there is something more to it. I have just been in a very long relationship, so I am really rusty when it comes to this. Any help on what I should do would be appreciated! Thanks!
Toodaloo Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 So around September last year was when this started. A girl from my class who I don't really talk to suddenly started initiating conversations with me. For example, she'd compliment my part in a presentation and she'd say hi every time I see her (she would only say Hi to me, and ignore the other people i'm with). I know this sounds stupid but, WE NEVER TALK AT ALL. We have been in the same class for a couple years and she has never talked to me and now out of the blue, she would initiate all our conversations. I am confused if she is just being friendly or if maybe there is something more to it. I have just been in a very long relationship, so I am really rusty when it comes to this. Any help on what I should do would be appreciated! Thanks! Try saying Hi back, or compliment some of her work as well... See what happens...
angel.eyes Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 Are you interested in being friends, dating her, or something else...or maybe nothing? Let that determine how you proceed.
GenuineAttraction Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 She's attracted to you. Tell her you'd like to get to know her better and ask for her number.
Author Bios Posted March 8, 2016 Author Posted March 8, 2016 I did say hi back, we've talked quite a bit compared to before. I also tried something stupid, like ask her to grad dinner but she said she has a date. So now i don't know what to do haha.
Author Bios Posted March 8, 2016 Author Posted March 8, 2016 Are you interested in being friends, dating her, or something else...or maybe nothing? Let that determine how you proceed. Since I'm really bad at initiating conversations with women I like, I don't know how to proceed with this. I'm just waiting for a solid proof that she's interested, then I'd try asking her out on a date.
GenuineAttraction Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 You must take action! Say, "We keep running into each other and I'd like to get to know you better." Then ask for her number
Author Bios Posted March 8, 2016 Author Posted March 8, 2016 You must take action! Say, "We keep running into each other and I'd like to get to know you better." Then ask for her number I have her number, I have her on social media and I have taken action (somewhat). I asked her if she's has a date to our grad dinner, and she said yeah. So i just said, oh nice. HAHAHA. Now she knows of my intentions (somewhat) and I don't know how to proceed after that.
Toodaloo Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 I have her number, I have her on social media and I have taken action (somewhat). I asked her if she's has a date to our grad dinner, and she said yeah. So i just said, oh nice. HAHAHA. Now she knows of my intentions (somewhat) and I don't know how to proceed after that. What you do is you continue to get to know her and talk to her. Do not have any agenda or hidden thing about getting together with her. Just talk to her and get to know her. I can pretty much gaurentee that she will be single again within the next 6 months as that is what happens when you are young. So after getting to know her if you still want to date her ask her out again. Take your time. No rush or panic here.
Author Bios Posted March 8, 2016 Author Posted March 8, 2016 What you do is you continue to get to know her and talk to her. Do not have any agenda or hidden thing about getting together with her. Just talk to her and get to know her. I can pretty much gaurentee that she will be single again within the next 6 months as that is what happens when you are young. So after getting to know her if you still want to date her ask her out again. Take your time. No rush or panic here. She's not in a relationship though. And yea i guess that would be best, I'm just worried that we won't see each other again as we are really close to graduating.
Toodaloo Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 She's not in a relationship though. And yea i guess that would be best, I'm just worried that we won't see each other again as we are really close to graduating. So take her on a date before you graduate then! You seem to want to so whats stopping you? Just walk up to her tell her that you would like to date her and if she is free on Friday would she like to go with you to do something like bowling or something... **Note - not a movie as you can't talk during movies!!!**
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