Luci Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 We broke up 2 months ago because I moved too far away from him. We broke up in very good terms and honestly I still love him of course but I feel hurt because since I moved he has only contacted me like 3 times. I know we broke up but he pretends like we were nothing, yesterday he texted me and I just replied with a simple "don't talk to me again" I just did it because I am hurt and I miss him so much.
Aika Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Who ended things? You're upset because he only contacted you 3 times while you're not together and then you tell him don't talk to you again. Yes of course it's rude. I think you need to figure out what you want. 1
Author Luci Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 Who ended things? You're upset because he only contacted you 3 times while you're not together and then you tell him don't talk to you again. Yes of course it's rude. I think you need to figure out what you want. It was mutual because we did not want a long distance relationship but I thought that maybe we could still be friends and that is why i was upset when eh did not contacted me.
Aika Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 It was mutual because we did not want a long distance relationship but I thought that maybe we could still be friends and that is why i was upset when eh did not contacted me. It would still take time to heal... he probably wasn't doing it to be insulting, but your reacting of "don't talk to me again" probably put an end to any sort of friendship that may have come from this unfortunate situation.
Simon Phoenix Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 It was mutual because we did not want a long distance relationship but I thought that maybe we could still be friends and that is why i was upset when eh did not contacted me. Why would you expect an ex to be friends with you right after a breakup? That's not a realistic or fair expectation. Friendships with exes are rare, and when they do happen they happen after months/years of recovery. 1
Tayla Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 Luci, I would suggest that the rejection maneuver that is your moniker be put to rest.
basil67 Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 He's your ex - you can't expect friendship from him. Though this won't be a problem after your final text....I doubt you'll be hearing from him again.
Lady2163 Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 We broke up 2 months ago because I moved too far away from him. We broke up in very good terms and honestly I still love him of course but I feel hurt because since I moved he has only contacted me like 3 times. I know we broke up but he pretends like we were nothing, yesterday he texted me and I just replied with a simple "don't talk to me again" I just did it because I am hurt and I miss him so much. You've heard from him three times in 8 weeks? Do you understand that most men don't communicate with people they don't see very often? Men don't need daily or weekly contact with their long distance friends. I had a contentious, brief relationship with a man 20 years ago. He is now one of my nearest and dearest friends. We might talk (we don't text or email) 10 times a year. We might exchange gifts once or twice a year. We are long distance. We might send a card or letter a couple times a year. Sounds like you wanted this guy to fawn all over you and tell you daily how much he misses you. Since you're long distance and he isn't moving to your area, logic tells him to move on with women and with life. What do you bring to the table as a friend? Doesn't sound like much.
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