mokymoky Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Hello! So I have just started a relationship with a guy for the first time in years. We dated for a month and then have been exclusive for two months. I met him because he is friends with my roommate's boyfriend, he asked me on a date and the rest is history. He has been nothing but respectful and patient with me as I am a virgin and have only ever been in one relationship before (I'm 20). We are taking things very slow and just enjoying the honeymoon phase. The thing is, he is in the Navy and because my roommate's boyfriend is in the same sub as him I found out they will be going on deployment in a a month and a half. Since knowing him, he has been on a month of underway where we emailed each other everyday. He has not brought up the fact that he is going to be deployed but I have a feeling he has almost brought it up...like the other day he was like "are you going to miss me", looked and me and quickly changed it to "when im gone underway for a week next month". Obviously our relationship is very new which is why I assume he has not brought it up, but I'm wondering if I should bring it up and discuss it with him or wait for him to bring it up on his own? Not really sure what is called for in this situation. Thank you for any advice! 1
Satu Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 More communication is usually better than less. I would just bring it up in conversation. Why not?
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 If you are concerned about what is going to happen to your relationship then yes bring it up. If it's just because he hasn't brought it up, don't bother, he will eventually tell you.
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