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Hello am very new to this, I just need some input on how to proceed with this. I currently live with my step sister (kinda) but since our parents did not get married it technically she is not my step sister etc... She and i have a pretty good relationship so i thought until she start hitting on me, now i know some people will think it's in your head blah blah.

 

I of course was keeping track of the signs and what to look for i do not know what to do with out ruining our relationship. First ill gave you the details we are both young around the same age am 25 and she is 24 we live with 3 other roommates now besides that we get along great and talk about some same stuff and we use bud that's when it kinda starts going down hill. At first before i moved in i would be barely see her she was in college and i was working/ living in a house with my friends. I did my own thing and she did too we so each on family events and some holidays, now that we are living together it got a little different.

 

Am attracted of course do to the fact she has an amazing body and personally but i tell myself i can not go there it will cause so more drama. Her on the other hand she is attracted to me as well i am a young guy that is fit etc and active so yea we are both young and horny. The thing is she does have a bf/ idk what **** their relationship is cause i never really see the guy she nvm posts stuff about him on Facebook but barely she is that type of girl to put that info on there. When he does come over they do their thing and i respect it, i try and hang out with them both to get the know him. Do stuff like snowboarding and bowling or computer stuff since we are both in that field for work etc...but yea she says yea maybe next time or ill ask him but never gets back to me on it.

 

 

Personally i think her and him broke up because he is never around doing his own thing etc... i think i spent to much time with her over the winter due to the fact that i was kinda hurt etc.. always at the house when she was but mostly we would smoke and chill. Anyways these are the signs i think she is hitting on my and how should i proceed with talking to her about this.

 

Now this is in order and i have been mostly ignoring her hitting on me for about 7 months getting old now.

 

(Aug)Before i moved in we smoke at the house we are the only ones home we would talk about stuff and i would see how she was doing etc.. but then her personally changes like play with her hair and kinda leaning towards me granded i was on a bean bag she was on the couch now she has smoke alot more than me so she has a higher tolerance than me. She would lick her lips and stuff but since we are high kinda ignored it. Then someone came home immediately her personally changed like she was disappointed that i didn't make a move this is back .last year

 

(Sep) Now fast forward a couple of was i moved now and on one saturday morning she had a hang over and wanted to smoke with me. We are outside talk about stuff etc.. then she asked what i was doing today and said i was watching a move in my room she ask if i could watch it. I said yes but said i have nothing for you to sit on but the bed, now i am not trying to make a move or anything i sat on one side she sat on the other now she is hang over i understand. The move start she is all curl up on the bed then out of nowhere starts putting her hand down her pants am like wtf in plain view so i can see these but i ignore it then she falls asleep i leave her alone so she can rest but later tell to go in her bed again she has that disappointed look.

 

 

Jan) Sorry but in nov and dec nothing serious happen unlike this one, Now this is the one where am like she is definitely hitting on me we chill and smoke downstairs since its cold we said **** that. We are chilling watching tv, now am on one side she is on the other she goes up stairs for something then comes back down and starts jump on the couch right next to mind. Now am smacked so am like wtf are you doing, then she stops sits right next to me and rubs my arm and then am like are you ****ing kidding me look away for sec then she moves over to her spot i assumed because i looked i away she knew i was not going to do anything idk.

 

Feb) I started smoking in her room well it's big an in the basement now am like lets smoke but everytime i go she is always saying this stuff and basically if you read between the lines you will understand. Now since am high am trying my best to ignore acting higher than normal. She wears revealing clothes to get my attention etc.. but yea we watched the walking dead then for no reason pokes me with her bottle then goes up stairs comes back down and kinda just standing their like she wants me to come to her room etc.. not sure if that was code for f me now but yea.

 

Mar) Nothing happened but i think i will confront her about it.

 

please advise me on wtf to do cause yea am getting annoyed.

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Sorry for those that read it and the grammer and etc.. at work typing this.

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