summerkisses Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Hi guys, so it's been awhile since I've posted anything but recently I've been having problems with my boyfriend We've been together for about five months ( I know, not that long) and stuff have been going great until recently. Last month he had to leave for a couple weeks for family emergency trip and he left abruptly. After that we started getting into a lot of fights because I felt like things were changing. We fought a lot recently and he said I complain too much. After our last fight, he said he needed a break for a couple of days to think about things. I respected that and said ok, then a few hours later he asked me what I was doing. We had a very very short conversation and stopped talking and it's been two days. Im very confused as to what is going on and I'm not sure if I'm holding onto false hope. Any advice will help. 1
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 It may stem to the nature of his family emergency. If it was terribly stressful & he was needed there but you were pestering him for attention, you could have damaged your fledgling relationship when you were needy when you should have been supportive. The break isn't a good sign, it's generally training for a break up but since he called you a few hours later he may have simply needed the release valve. For now sit tight. Ask some Qs about how he's feeling in general but do not pressure him about the relationship. 1
Satu Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Hi guys, so it's been awhile since I've posted anything but recently I've been having problems with my boyfriend We've been together for about five months ( I know, not that long) and stuff have been going great until recently. Last month he had to leave for a couple weeks for family emergency trip and he left abruptly. After that we started getting into a lot of fights because I felt like things were changing. We fought a lot recently and he said I complain too much. After our last fight, he said he needed a break for a couple of days to think about things. I respected that and said ok, then a few hours later he asked me what I was doing. We had a very very short conversation and stopped talking and it's been two days. Im very confused as to what is going on and I'm not sure if I'm holding onto false hope. Any advice will help. Too much fighting. He might have a lower tolerance for it than you. You need to work on your communication skills, regardless of whoever starts it. 1
Author summerkisses Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 Do you guys think there's still a chance for us to work out?
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