Author avf Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 Can I ask one thing? Why/how did a single mom drive 100 miles to see you? Why aren't you driving to see her? or meet halfway? How did that conversation go... "OK, I'll come see you, be there in 4 hours" "Sure, drive safely" ???? Man, she just told you she's a single mum, and you just let her drive all the way to see you? I mean, that's a huge drive, the petrol cost, cost of a babysitter... Maybe she's just asking for a fair compensation for her costs? Actually I half expected her to cancel last minute, maybe she was bored, maybe I am the best option for her at this time...who knows. I drove about 30miles and she did 70. She drove for an hour. with present gas prices its not much and she did have a good car(sign?). Kid went to the other parent Also there is nothing to do around her town, while something to do on myside.
ribeto Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 If I was you I'd just roll with it, if things lead to sex and then she says afterwards "where's my allowance", give her 50 cents and say that's what you used to get. You'll find out soon enough if she's joking or not.
Author avf Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 She's being very vague, could be a joke, could be an offer of sex for hire. You said she's a hot single mother, right? Ok let's look at YOUR history. Do you typically hotties throwing themselves at you and driving 2 hours to meet you? If so, then yeah she's probably joking around and she's really into you like all the other hotties. If this is an aberration, then face it, you're not really attracting hotties that will travel 2 hours to see you and it's all about the money. Ofcourse I have hotties throwing themselves at me all the time....kidding ! Nah I am in my late thirties and good looking(for some), tall and dont look scruffy ! Shes 10 years younger so I know its the money thing !
frus69 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 He met her, right? doesn't mean she cant lie? Can you tell if someone is a single mom by just looking at her? But anyway, its not important what she really is.
frus69 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 If I was you I'd just roll with it, if things lead to sex and then she says afterwards "where's my allowance", give her 50 cents and say that's what you used to get. You'll find out soon enough if she's joking or not. He wont be able to get sex unless he pays in advance. Come on, this is called professionalism. 1
joseb Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 (edited) Ofcourse I have hotties throwing themselves at me all the time....kidding ! Nah I am in my late thirties and good looking(for some), tall and dont look scruffy ! Shes 10 years younger so I know its the money thing ! I think you are selling yourself short. Do you really think a late 20s single mum is that much better on the dating market than a decent looking single guy in his late thirties? Your mistake was saying you wanted to be her king. If you laughed off her BS immediately she might have dropped it. Now she sees a wallet. Edited March 7, 2016 by joseb 2
SugarLips72 Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 If you drove 100 miles for a date you are desperate. She had a lot of nerve to make a comment like that. She already thinks you are smitten and a schmuck. If you actually talk to her after this then you are definitely both.
kendahke Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 Here on LS it usually means original poster. On other sites sometimes it also means other person. Every relationship site I've been on uses OP as Original Post/Poster. If they're talking about a side piece, that's OW/OM. 1
kendahke Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 (edited) People can say whatever. Isn't it called catfish? You don't meet catfish and they are never who they say they are. Avf met her face to face, so she's who she says she is in that her pictures and her actual face match up. Catfish will attempt to get at your cash, but they will not meet you in person while trying to do it. That undermines the whole catfishing dynamic. Edited March 8, 2016 by kendahke
Rumely Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 If you drove 100 miles for a date you are desperate. We don't know where the OP lives. I live in a very rural area. The closest town of any size is 100 miles away. Diving 100 miles would be considered normal.
Thonethatgotaway Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 No you can't tell by just looking if someone is a single mom. I can't even tell by looking at myself in the mirror that I am a single mom doesn't mean she cant lie? Can you tell if someone is a single mom by just looking at her? But anyway, its not important what she really is. 2
Author avf Posted March 14, 2016 Author Posted March 14, 2016 To update my fellow supporters here... I finally realized I did not have the patience to play this game nor the real inclination. I cut the interaction with a text. "I am not interested !". This was an eyeopener and definitely my lookout for on a profiles that state Location: "Eyewhere you are"
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