avf Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Ok I know how this sounds and it I agree its fishy right off the bat ! So I met someone online and she drove 100 miles to see me. We had a good time, dancing, food kissing etc. The date is good looking, ex model, 30 yrs and self employed single mom. We talked about meeting again. Day later she texted me how was my day and i jokingly old her I was thinking of her all day and she says She maybe too much of a princess for me. I reply I wanna be a King. After some texts she says " Can you give me a monthly allowance King ?" I am like WTF (in my mind, I knew she was fancy but not blatant) SO I play along to find what she has in mind etc. and she is like why be with a man who cannot help me grow. So I know all this sounds like money grabbing scheme, How should I play and please don't say run coz I want to see how this plays out. Thoughts, advice, tips ..... 2
mrs rubble Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Tell her you'll give her a pearl necklace whenever she likes. 12
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 OP start thinking with your brains instead of your balls... You are willing to pay her a monthly allowance for looking pretty? Self employed at what may I ask? Getting one over of guys? Pulling a fast one? Wake up please before you are back on here complaining that women only want you for your money and you have paid this woman a ton of cash for nothing blagh blagh blagh... 10
GR4 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I read that as a joke. Not a very good one but a joke nonetheless. Again, though, quit texting! It's such a crap way of communicating for this very reason. I thought it was a joke, you didn't. See how everything can be misinterpreted in a text? 1
Art_Critic Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Tell her you'll give her a pearl necklace whenever she likes. The finest jewels in the land Dude.. she just wants to be a kept woman and she might have other guys already giving her allowances so you will just be one of many. She sounds like she isn't relationship material 5
road Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I did not read it as a joke. Red Flag - single mom has the time to drive 100 miles for just a date? Single mom has the time for a LDR? It looks like it It smells like it It feels like it It tastes like it It chews like it It swallows like it And just think I almost stepped in it I mean how far does one have to go down that list before they realize that a relationship with this woman is made of manure? 3
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 It looks like it It smells like it It feels like it It tastes like it It chews like it It swallows like it And just think I almost stepped in it You missed off that it even said it was... But thats OK because she is an ex model *really really need that face palm smiley thing* 2
SammySammy Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I admire the gall of this woman though. She asked because it works. She has obviously done it before. Will do it again after this guy. They say closed mouths don't get fed. Lots of simps and suckers in this world. 2
SSJROMANCE Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 My take is that she has a bunch of men on the side supporting her and her child. She finds a guy, says I might be too good for you but I'll spend time with you if you pay me. Isn't that the definition of an escort?
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 My take is that she has a bunch of men on the side supporting her and her child. She finds a guy, says I might be too good for you but I'll spend time with you if you pay me. Isn't that the definition of an escort? I think escorts also supply blow jobs... OP is getting short changed... 2
Shining One Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Tell her she gets an allowance once she does her "chores". After she's done her "chores", tell her she's been bad and she gets no allowance for this month. That should be the end of things. 5
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 If you are willing to pay for it, negotiate a price. But do understand she wants your money not your companionship. 1
kendahke Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I'd tell her that you'd prefer a woman who is already in a self sustaining place, that you're not her father and that she needs to go talk to him for an allowance. Then block her and stop dealing with her. That's not a joke, it's not funny and no grown woman should be asking any man she just met and barely knows for a dime. 1
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 She wants to be paid for her time with you.....and don't be surprised if she has another client or two. It's not uncommon for prostitutes to work the OLD sites. BTW modeling could also mean worked in the porn industry or twirled on a pole for dollar bills. 3
GorillaTheater Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I dunno, guys. I do see this as a joke, and it's hard to see based on the facts presented where a lot of you see it as something more. If you're more cynical than I am, be concerned.
Redhead14 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Ok I know how this sounds and it I agree its fishy right off the bat ! So I met someone online and she drove 100 miles to see me. We had a good time, dancing, food kissing etc. The date is good looking, ex model, 30 yrs and self employed single mom. We talked about meeting again. Day later she texted me how was my day and i jokingly old her I was thinking of her all day and she says She maybe too much of a princess for me. I reply I wanna be a King. After some texts she says " Can you give me a monthly allowance King ?" I am like WTF (in my mind, I knew she was fancy but not blatant) SO I play along to find what she has in mind etc. and she is like why be with a man who cannot help me grow. So I know all this sounds like money grabbing scheme, How should I play and please don't say run coz I want to see how this plays out. Thoughts, advice, tips ..... Anyone who asks for money even in a joking manner from an online site should be reported . . . and she drove 100 miles to see You? That's a little odd. I could see meeting half way or something. I say run from this one. Sumpin's up.
ASG Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I dunno, guys. I do see this as a joke, and it's hard to see based on the facts presented where a lot of you see it as something more. If you're more cynical than I am, be concerned. How does it sound like a joke?? A from what OP said, he carried on the conversation to find out what kind of figure she was looking for. That's not a joke. I mean... sure... you can joke about it. But you don't then have a further conversation about the price range of that allowance. Or you throw out a particularly ridiculous number. I don't think that's the case here... This is the definition of sugar dating. You pay them an allowance and they spend time with you. 1
Cherryz Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Hhahahaha, i never heard of someone asking to leave them in trouble and advice them to stay there. The thing you need to remember she probably a master in this type of fake dating just to get money out of man. You may be one of many she had. You on the other hand is a naive unexperienced young guy( just a comparation) that want to try to play her game on her field. You must know you will lose many cash without gaining anything. Maybe also fall in love and keep losing money on this lazy fake model and gold-digger. Or you should really know what you doing. Even thou as a man she may fool you easily maybe by just keep you warm with the idea that you will gain at least sex out of this but never give it to you. You better run now or get burned. This may be the only job she ever had.
Haydn Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Tell her a `tenner` a week with a `bunk up` every Thursday. Seriously though.... `Leg it` 3
road Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 (edited) [] An allowance? I'd put her on the pay roll with a health plan and a pension. Edited March 7, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
spriggan2 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Tell her you don't give money to GF's unless you've been dating for at least 6-7 months. See if she stays. 1
jen1447 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 (edited) Hmmm ....I don't know that I'd say it's automatically a money-making scheme. The fact is, there are some women out there (and a few men actually) who just operate this way, where a relationship just means 'getting paid' in some way or other but not for the express purpose of making money. It can take a lot of different forms - monthly car payments, rent, etc. SO, my guess is that's just how she rolls. If it was more overt, like she bills you for time spent, I'd be more concerned she was essentially an escort. btw it's true that ppl who roll this way tend to have less traditional values, and she may well have a few guys she accepts 'tributes' from. Again, not with the express intent of being a service provider, just a lifestyle. But yeah I'd be a lot more concerned she's got other things going on than a conventional relationship, if that bothers you. As to how you should handle it, if you like her enough and the arrangement works for you, pay her. If not, don't. No real need for games - values notwithstanding, at least she was up-front with you about it. Edited March 7, 2016 by jen1447 1
Author avf Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 Anyone who asks for money even in a joking manner from an online site should be reported . . . and she drove 100 miles to see You? That's a little odd. I could see meeting half way or something. I say run from this one. Sumpin's up. The 100 miles is what stumps me too coz shes good looking enough that she could have many men come to meet her where she stays. The town does have a bad repute though.
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