risjurad Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I see from someone's online dating profile that she's a student. I ask her what she's studying, as a way to initiate communications. Her response was "None of your business". So what are some of the things this could mean? 1) She just doesn't want to deal with me because she's not interested due to my profile, my profile pics, I didn't say I was a dog lover, and/or how I'm 2.5 hours away, whatever 2) I should respond back because that's what a confident person would do (a trait she seeks according to her profile)? I'm wondering why she even bothered to respond at all really.
TXGuy Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 My best guess is that she responded the way she did because she thinks she is too good for you. In her mind she was insulted that you thought you had a chance with her. She responded rather than ignoring you because she is a bit of a sadist.
yxalitis Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 My best guess is that she responded the way she did because she thinks she is too good for you. In her mind she was insulted that you thought you had a chance with her. She responded rather than ignoring you because she is a bit of a b!tch. Fixed that for you 6
ff12343 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Fixed that for you LOL. OP she's a student. Let children play in their sand boxes. Unless its "kids in sandboxes". Don't look that up. It's vile. Not sure who remembers that but it came out before 2 girls 1 cup.
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Why would you want to continue to waste your time dealing with such a hostile unpleasant person? Delete & move on. 2
Author risjurad Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 Why would you want to continue to waste your time dealing with such a hostile unpleasant person? Delete & move on. I've been out of it long enough that I'd like to make sure there wasn't some other reason.
angel.eyes Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 She's not interested. In your shoes, I would move along.
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 She isn't interested and she is also really rude! This is worse than no response so don't bother - just chalk it up to her being bit of a cow bag and phew at least you don't have to take that on a date! 1
LookAtThisPOst Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 She isn't interested and she is also really rude! This is worse than no response so don't bother - just chalk it up to her being bit of a cow bag and phew at least you don't have to take that on a date! Yeah, I had a situation where a woman, locally. She respond with, "You're a year younger than me and you LOOK 10 years older! With that said, good luck finding someone, you're going to need it!" Btw, she's been on the dating site for years, no kids, never married, mid 40's. So that explains a lot.
Erik30 Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 There was nothing wrong with your question, she's not interested. I don't know either why she even replied. Maybe she was bored or pissed off because some guy she liked rejected her. Don't respond back, there's no point really. Even though I would be tempted to send back a sarcastic message if someone did that to me. Anyway it says a lot about her personality so you probably dodged a bullet. 1
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 There was nothing wrong with your question, she's not interested. I don't know either why she even replied. Maybe she was bored or pissed off because some guy she liked rejected her. Don't respond back, there's no point really. Even though I would be tempted to send back a sarcastic message if someone did that to me. Anyway it says a lot about her personality so you probably dodged a bullet. For some people there is a reason why they are using OLD... This girl is clearly so rude that the guys she knows in real life have all decided to give her a miss. Follow the advice of your fellow man and leave this one in the corner. She will only come out spitting and scratching if you carry on talking to her either as a human being or as the rotter she is. So don't bother wasting your time or energy. As above. You dodged a bullet.
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I've been out of it long enough that I'd like to make sure there wasn't some other reason. I don't even see the potential for another reason. She's just a rude person. Contacting her again will only make her more hostile. Do you enjoy poking hornets' nests for fun too? 1
NYC-BigKat Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I see from someone's online dating profile that she's a student. I ask her what she's studying, as a way to initiate communications. Her response was "None of your business". So what are some of the things this could mean? 1) She just doesn't want to deal with me because she's not interested due to my profile, my profile pics, I didn't say I was a dog lover, and/or how I'm 2.5 hours away, whatever 2) I should respond back because that's what a confident person would do (a trait she seeks according to her profile)? I'm wondering why she even bothered to respond at all really. Uh...she sounds rude & bitchy. I think u should ignore her after that & don't give her any more of your time so u wont look so desperate & stuff.
alpo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Wow I can't believe you people are telling this guy to just 'forget it and delete her'. If a girl ever talked to me like that or responded to me like that, even on an online interaction I would be coming to find her and it wouldn't be pretty. Not in terms of physical violence, but if she lived local I would definitely be coming to see her in person to address it. If you are a pussy or weak you might delete it and move on, but no woman could speak to me like that and carry on having online fun. At least send an ONLINE REPLY displaying some sort of aggression. Damn women these days think they can treat you how they want under the guise of 'moving on'.
Mrin Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Wow I can't believe you people are telling this guy to just 'forget it and delete her'. If a girl ever talked to me like that or responded to me like that, even on an online interaction I would be coming to find her and it wouldn't be pretty. Not in terms of physical violence, but if she lived local I would definitely be coming to see her in person to address it. If you are a pussy or weak you might delete it and move on, but no woman could speak to me like that and carry on having online fun. At least send an ONLINE REPLY displaying some sort of aggression. Damn women these days think they can treat you how they want under the guise of 'moving on'. Creepy. If you must reply then reply with: good luck with that. Mkay? Bye 2
MissBee Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I see from someone's online dating profile that she's a student. I ask her what she's studying, as a way to initiate communications. Her response was "None of your business". So what are some of the things this could mean? 1) She just doesn't want to deal with me because she's not interested due to my profile, my profile pics, I didn't say I was a dog lover, and/or how I'm 2.5 hours away, whatever 2) I should respond back because that's what a confident person would do (a trait she seeks according to her profile)? I'm wondering why she even bothered to respond at all really. She's not interested is the only thing we can say it DEFINITELY means. And really, that is all you need to know from a stranger. Whether or not you love dogs or are confident are neither here nor there. She is rude and also not interested, and responding or not will likely not change that. Aside though: did you just message this woman and the first thing you asked was what she's studying? That's a little lame for my taste and I'd probably not respond to a message like that personally. However, that is a side point. The main point is: this woman is rude and isn't interested in you, for any number of reasons that don't truly matter, so don't read into it...move forward. That's the world of dating on and offline.
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Creepy. If you must reply then reply with: good luck with that. Mkay? Bye I am glad I am not the only one that found that creepy... Why bother replying at all? If you said hello to someone at the bus stop and they said F off you wouldn't then start going on or talking to them. You would wrinkle your nose and turn you back on them. Same principle applies. This girl will learn when she is on the shelf and has wrinkles.
MissBee Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Wow I can't believe you people are telling this guy to just 'forget it and delete her'. If a girl ever talked to me like that or responded to me like that, even on an online interaction I would be coming to find her and it wouldn't be pretty. Not in terms of physical violence, but if she lived local I would definitely be coming to see her in person to address it. If you are a pussy or weak you might delete it and move on, but no woman could speak to me like that and carry on having online fun. At least send an ONLINE REPLY displaying some sort of aggression. Damn women these days think they can treat you how they want under the guise of 'moving on'. This is highly disturbing. So because a stranger told you that their life was none of your business you are gonna stalk and hunt them down in person to do what exactly???? Pick your battles. Hunting down a complete stranger who said what they were studying was none of your business seems a waste of time, energy and seems a little off if I'm completely honest. 4
BrianSmith Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Your question was quite boring. The fact is most people don't like school, nor their job so talking about those topics when someone is online, and very possibly already bored and looking for some entertainment isn't ideal. Anyway, she's probably not in to you so why waste more time with her when you could waste it with another girl who is? Just say a normal, "Hi, how are you?" If a girl is attracted to you then it should be all that you need. Just be yourself and have fun, don't stress so much about little stuff lol
alpo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I am glad I am not the only one that found that creepy... Why bother replying at all? If you said hello to someone at the bus stop and they said F off you wouldn't then start going on or talking to them. You would wrinkle your nose and turn you back on them. Same principle applies. This girl will learn when she is on the shelf and has wrinkles. Are you kidding? If someone said F off to me for saying hello to them I wouldn't just put my head down and ignore, I'd REACT to it! I wasn't brought up to be some pussy who lets everyone walk all over them. Try being raised in a ghetto and see how far an attitude of hiding from confrontation gets you! I would reply in some way to that girl and let her know she can't get away with talking to people like that, just because she knows that a bunch of beta wimps will still continue liking her pictures and showering her with attention. This new generation are different. 1
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Are you kidding? If someone said F off to me for saying hello to them I wouldn't just put my head down and ignore, I'd REACT to it! I wasn't brought up to be some pussy who lets everyone walk all over them. Try being raised in a ghetto and see how far an attitude of hiding from confrontation gets you! I would reply in some way to that girl and let her know she can't get away with talking to people like that, just because she knows that a bunch of beta wimps will still continue liking her pictures and showering her with attention. This new generation are different. Agh well you see alpo that is where we differ. I deal with lots of people who have bad upbringings and poor attitudes. I have learnt that the phrase "kill them with kindness" is quite true... And yeah I would ignore because quite frankly that behaviour is unacceptable from anyone. So why should I bother wasting my time on a person who is simply not worth it. Save your punches and emotion for those that are.
truth_seeker Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Wow I can't believe you people are telling this guy to just 'forget it and delete her'. If a girl ever talked to me like that or responded to me like that, even on an online interaction I would be coming to find her and it wouldn't be pretty. Not in terms of physical violence, but if she lived local I would definitely be coming to see her in person to address it. If you are a pussy or weak you might delete it and move on, but no woman could speak to me like that and carry on having online fun. At least send an ONLINE REPLY displaying some sort of aggression. Damn women these days think they can treat you how they want under the guise of 'moving on'. I agree. Some of these people need to be put in their place. I did that to one woman and felt great afterwards.
truth_seeker Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I have learnt that the phrase "kill them with kindness" is quite true... Yes, there are times and situations where you should ignore people and kill them with kindness... but then there people you have to speak up and put them in their place. It's a good lesson for them as maybe they will change their attitudes towards people in general.
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Yes, there are times and situations where you should ignore people and kill them with kindness... but then there people you have to speak up and put them in their place. It's a good lesson for them as maybe they will change their attitudes towards people in general. Trust me. They don't. So why waste time and energy on them when they are worthless? Would rather save it for someone worth while myself.
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