why am i trying to ruin this?

[redbirdnormal]

I went on a date with this girl. Hockey game and dinner and a movie at my place.

 

We had talked before the date and she was really sweet. She called me really really cute and we had a good chat everytime we talked

 

2 days after the date i asked her on a second date and she said yes. Obviously I was excited. The day after I came off a little clingy but she was cool with it and made jokes about it. WE've texted in the meantime (her initiating more than me) She tried to call me wednesday but I was working and couldn't pick up

 

Since Thursday though the communication has died down a bit.

 

I don't think it's a bad thing at all, BUT I am starting to freak a bit. It's making me want to blwo her stuff up and be like "whats wrong" "we're still going out again right?"

 

what is wrong with me? she's obliviously interested or she would have said no

[redbirdnormal]

do i just calm down?

[basil67]

do i just calm down?

 

I don't think you have much choice but to calm down.

 

She either wants to see you or she doesn't. But being panicky about it won't do you any favours in either direction.

 

Just remember that if she doesn't want to continue, there's always another girl around the corner.

[redbirdnormal]

i dont see why she wouldnt

[thecrucible]

Maybe she slowed down because she'd like you to ask her on another date? I would try and set up another date and focus on trying to see her in person rather than the texting.

[redbirdnormal]

Maybe she slowed down because she'd like you to ask her on another date? I would try and set up another date and focus on trying to see her in person rather than the texting.

 

 

i have sahe said yes

 

but i feel she will change her mind

[thecrucible]

i have sahe said yes

 

but i feel she will change her mind

 

Have you set a time and place for your next date?

[redbirdnormal]

Have you set a time and place for your next date?

 

 

saturday night

[Versacehottie]

my friend you are being much too anxious. I can hear it even in your posts. All that chatter is in your head, not necessarily anywhere else. It certainly won't help things to be anxious or worry. Could mess them up.

 

Just text her as normal. Be confident--it's your best weapon.

[ff12343]

Texting is a tool.

 

I.E. Do you want to get coffee on "Day XYZ"? If she says yes, leave it at that. Limit how much you text.

[ThisisIt606]

Did you call her back after the miss call on Wednesday? Maybe even tell her you couldn't pick up bc you were working?

 

if this is the first time she called and you didn't pick up, maybe she was a little hesitant after. Just try to keep up communication with her. Call, text, ask how her day is going etc. Then see if she wants to go out again.