Noandyes Posted March 6, 2016 Posted March 6, 2016 Our friendship started three months back. We did not talk much. Most of our chat is done on online group chat, so I don't consider us to be very close. However, she likes to put her hand on my shoulder or back, rub my arm and put her arm on my back leaning to me and the duration she touch me is long. While her hands on my shoulder, we were standing at a very close distance where our hips were touching. Sometimes when she put her arm on my back and lean on me, she were talking with my friend and I was looking at something else. I observed she will sometimes put her hand on other people's shoulder but not as often as on me and not as long as on me. The way she put her hand on other people's shoulder is hanging her arm on their shoulder. There were few times she were staring at me and when I looked at her, her eyes were intense and our eyes were locked for quite some time before I broke the contact. The initial months we met, she will looked at me with bright eyes, smiling wide while talking with me but recently, when she talk to me, she did not have eye contact with me although her hand on my shoulder. I wonder all this is friendly touch or flirting touch. Can anyone advice? Thanks.
d0nnivain Posted March 6, 2016 Posted March 6, 2016 They are flirty. One touch is friendly . . . this many is flirting.
Author Noandyes Posted March 8, 2016 Author Posted March 8, 2016 But why would she be flirty to me when she doesn't look at me when she talks with me? Quite contradicting and confusing.
Author Noandyes Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Does it mean she is interested in me? How should I approach her and have a closer relationship with her? I've tried asking her out for movies and other activities along with our mutual friends but she kept saying busy.
mikeylo Posted March 9, 2016 Posted March 9, 2016 She's shy. A shy girl wouldn't touch that much! They keep to themselves and it's hard to know for sure if they are interested or not. OP, if you like her and are interested, ask her out. Her answer will tell you all you need to know. If she isn't interested then at least she will keep her hands to herself or she could just be a tease.
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