Not sure to say anything / slightly jealous

[Goodwin1001]

A couple of nights ago I had 1 of my guy mates stay the night because he had to many drinks to drive. It was me, him and my girlfriend. Once we offered him to stay the night we had to organise the spare room bed. My gf decided to go show him where it was and put new sheets and blankets on for him. We all had a few drinks but weren't drunk.

 

My girlfriend was wearing a denim mini skirt which was not to revealing but still short. Once they left to show him the room I grabbed a new set of batteries out the draw for the tv remote in his room so was only a minute behind. I got to just outside the room in the hall where I saw my gf getting the new sheets from under the bed. He was just standing along side the bed watching her but did not know I was in the hall.

 

My gf was lying flat on her stomach reaching for the new sheets and her skirt started to move up with each move she made until her butt cheeks started to show a little( at first it looked like she had no panties on) My mate noticed and was smirking. Then the worst of it happened, she flipped onto her back and started to slowly slide back out from underneath the bed. Her first move on her back pushed her skirt up past her waist revealing her small pink thong... Except the front of it was off to 1 side exposing her crotch completely.

 

My friend was staring at her visible crotch and she seemed to not no her skirt had rode up and her thong had moved. I saw all this still in the hallway but had no idea what to do, she eventually came out from under the bed but she had flashed him for about 10 seconds. As she sat upright her skirt covered her just enough for her not to notice.

 

I have not mentioned what happened to her and my mate doesn't know I saw the whole thing. I'm slightly jealous my gf flashed everything and he got a good look between her legs.

 

I'm not sure if I should be mad at him for not looking away or telling her to cover herself, I'm also not sure how my gf did not notice her whole crotch hanging out her thong, wouldn't you notice or feel it not covered?

 

Should I say anything,or what should I do?

Edited March 9, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[imperfectangel]

Would you look away, honestly? Think it's human nature to look but have a quiet word with your gf I'd assume she had no idea

[Goodwin1001]

Probably not but still, that's why I'm not sure what to do....I think he took a good eyeful because her head was still under the bed and thought no one noticed. I didint say anything at the time because i didn't want to embarrass her.

 

Her ass/ legs is where she gets the most attention from other men... She has 1 pair of 3/4 pants that fall down as soon as she bends over. I have let her know about it but she said she likes them.it doesn't bother me as long as she pulls them up after bending over. Usually she does but now and again she doesn't feel them fall down and her crack will show. She wore them once while playing darts with friends and her dart fell behind some boxes so she was bending over a lot without pulling them up to Pratically half her ass was hanging out.

 

I told her at the time to pull them up and she did a tiny bit until she bent over again and they fell back down. I'm use to her butt hanging out now and again but not her full pussy.

 

Wouldn't you feel it hanging out??? I can understand if a little was but not the whole thing.

[TX-SC]

Did she know she flashed him? If not, I'd let it drop. It's not like hervaginais some special flower. It'll only embarrass her.

[imperfectangel]

I think you're way over thinking it and tbh it sounds like she likes the attention.

[preraph]

If he was any kind of gentleman, he'd have told her, Hey, get up, I'll get it. You don't ask a woman in a dress to get down on the floor. Sounds like she was too trashed to know what she was doing. Maybe he was too. But he's who I'd keep an eye on. I wouldn't say anything and humiliate her though. I'd just keep an eye on him and no more sleepovers for him.

[Satu]

Your friend should have looked away, and your gf should not have given him something to look at in the first place.

 

Everybody knows when their intimate parts are on display.

 

It might be that she has some exhibitionist tendencies, rather than intending to do anything with anyone other than you.

 

I would definitely have a word with her, but if you do, expect her to be offended.

Edited March 5, 2016 by Satu

[TX-SC]

Your friend should have looked away, and your gf should not have given him something to look at in the first place.

 

Everybody knows when their intimate parts are on display.

 

It might be that she has some exhibitionist tendencies, rather than intending to anything with anyone other than you.

 

I would definitely have a word with her, but if you do, expect her to be offended.

 

Agreed. Unless she was really drunk, I bet she knew she was exposed to him. If she wears mini skirts with a thong, it sounds like she kind of likes showing off what she has. But, he SHOULD have looked away. Granted, he was drunk too and not many guys are going to miss a chance to see a vagina. Make sure to change your sheets again. He probably whacked off over that after he went to bed.

 

Women's vaginas have some variability over all, but unless she was spreading it for him, I doubt the image will stick around too long. Hell, after 20 years of marriage, I doubt I could pick out ANY of my ex gf's vaginas in a line-up. But still, I'd be kind of watching this friend of yours.

[Satu]

Agreed. Unless she was really drunk, I bet she knew she was exposed to him. If she wears mini skirts with a thong, it sounds like she kind of likes showing off what she has. But, he SHOULD have looked away. Granted, he was drunk too and not many guys are going to miss a chance to see a vagina. Make sure to change your sheets again. He probably whacked off over that after he went to bed.

 

Women's vaginas have some variability over all, but unless she was spreading it for him, I doubt the image will stick around too long. Hell, after 20 years of marriage, I doubt I could pick out ANY of my ex gf's vaginas in a line-up. But still, I'd be kind of watching this friend of yours.

 

I've known some people who have a tendency to exhibitionism, who wouldn't dream of cheating on their partners, but get a naughty thrill out of showing a bit of what they've got.

 

As far as human nature goes, there are many worse things...

[Scarlett.O'hara]

If I were in her shoes, I would want to know that my choice of clothing was exposing everything. She should know better, but some people can be clueless until they realize how much they are really exposing.

 

She needs to know exactly what happened, without feeling judged. Don't tell her to cover up, just tell her the truth. It is up to her how she deals with it in future. I would hope she learns to from the mistake.

 

Just for future reference, if you see you girlfriend in such a compromising position again, you should feel obliged to protect her by stopping it immediately, not allowing some guy to stand there getting his rocks off.

 

Whether it was intentional or not, she was in a vulnerable position with a "friend" who didn't have the courtesy to avert his eyes out of respect to her, or you for that matter.

 

Please tell her what happened.

[stillafool]

Your gf knew what she was doing.

[Heatemyheart89]

Sorry , this story did make me laugh. Hmm a tough one, if you trust her I would say it is nothing but it depends on her personality really. I am not surprised your friend looked, I would ( I am a female).

[Gloria25]

Your gf knew what she was doing.

 

I've heard a saying in Spanish that goes something like 'A drunk doesn't eat his own poop'...in other words, while alcohol lowers inhibitions and/or can get us bold enough to do stupid stuff, at the end of the daywe have "some" control cuz put a plate of poooo in front of any drunk and he/she ain't gonna eat it.

 

Your "friend" was wrong in eyeing your gf and asking her to do something that would make her bend over.

 

Your gf, IMO, shouldn't be "on display". Now a days a lot of women have an attitude of 'I'll wear what I want and if you dare look, stare and/or whistle/catcall - you're a dog. IMO, that attitude is wrong. People are animals in part. You, male or female can't run around showing skin w/o getting attention. And yes, how you "present" yourself is gonna get you a particular response. If trotting around in low-rise mini-skirts makes a guy think you're a Nun, then God help us all. If a woman in a Burka means she's looking to hook-up, again, God help us all.

 

I mean, arguments about liberation and all that aside, let's use common sense. To have sex, you need to get naked..you need to have "some" way of attracting another human. We don't have mating calls. One way to let another person know you're "available" is showing skin. People, whenever they use skin, they get attention. If skin wasn't a factor in illiciting a particular response from men, then Hooter girls would be in Burkas and still get guys to flock Hooters...cuz we all can have beers and wings at home.

Edited March 9, 2016 by Gloria25

[strawberryshortstack]

A couple of nights ago I had 1 of my guy mates stay the night because he had to many drinks to drive. It was me, him and my girlfriend. Once we offered him to stay the night we had to organise the spare room bed. My gf decided to go show him where it was and put new sheets and blankets on for him. We all had a few drinks but weren't drunk.

 

My girlfriend was wearing a denim mini skirt which was not to revealing but still short. Once they left to show him the room I grabbed a new set of batteries out the draw for the tv remote in his room so was only a minute behind. I got to just outside the room in the hall where I saw my gf getting the new sheets from under the bed. He was just standing along side the bed watching her but did not know I was in the hall.

 

My gf was lying flat on her stomach reaching for the new sheets and her skirt started to move up with each move she made until her butt cheeks started to show a little( at first it looked like she had no panties on) My mate noticed and was smirking. Then the worst of it happened, she flipped onto her back and started to slowly slide back out from underneath the bed. Her first move on her back pushed her skirt up past her waist revealing her small pink thong... Except the front of it was off to 1 side exposing her crotch completely.

 

My friend was staring at her visible crotch and she seemed to not no her skirt had rode up and her thong had moved. I saw all this still in the hallway but had no idea what to do, she eventually came out from under the bed but she had flashed him for about 10 seconds. As she sat upright her skirt covered her just enough for her not to notice.

 

I have not mentioned what happened to her and my mate doesn't know I saw the whole thing. I'm slightly jealous my gf flashed everything and he got a good look between her legs.

 

I'm not sure if I should be mad at him for not looking away or telling her to cover herself, I'm also not sure how my gf did not notice her whole crotch hanging out her thong, wouldn't you notice or feel it not covered?

 

Should I say anything,or what should I do?

 

If she was wearing a short skirt and a thong, she probably felt no more exposed than she was when she wasn't bent over. If I were her, I'd appreciate a heads up, but as others have mentioned, with no judgment.