Kevin_D Posted March 5, 2016 Posted March 5, 2016 It's time again, time for another breakup. This time the relationship lasted for about 7 months. And it ended in a rather weird way. Februari 21: We hung out for the last time. Everything seemed great. Februari 22: I went on a business trip. She asked me I was on Facebook and then suddenly stopped answering me. I figured that she had fallen asleep. However, she didn't contact me the following days. Februari 29: I asked her why she was stonewalling me. I said that communication is the key in all relationships and that we're doomed if this continues. She said that she wasn't good enough for me and that she understood if I wanted to break up. I told her that I would get my stuff the day after. She panicked and said that she loved me and didn't want this to end. The following days she chit-chatted a bit with me. Told me that she's really depressed and don't want to appear weak in front of me. And then suddenly, the stonewalling began again. March 4: I told her that she can't keep ignoring me and she said "You're right. Tell me when you want to pick up your stuff". March 5 (today) I went to her place to pick up my stuff. When I got there, she had already packed my stuff. Her parents were there as well, happily shouting "Hi Kevin!". It was bizarre. She didn't seem depressed at all, she seemed quite happy... Not a tear, not a sign of emotion. *** This will be the easiest breakup I've had by far. I realised early on that the wasn't very affectionate or emotional. You know, she's the kind of girl who says "That's funny" instead of laughing. And when she smiles, it doesn't look real. It looks like a person who pretends to be happy. Yet, it fascinates me how people handle these situations. I have no idea why she got depressed, why she stonewalled me. And when I offered her an easy way out, she panicked. Was this her way of taking a break without calling it a break? Maybe she felt guilty for talking to another guy and therefore ignored me? Maybe her parents pressured her (why the hell were they there anyway?). Did she say that she didn't want the relationship to end so that she could dump me instead? So many questions. Anyway, I'm getting really tired of all this. I know that many claim that womens feelings change like the wind, but what the hell. This has happened to me several times now and to basically all my friends. Everything seems fine one day, and suddenly, without explanation, BANG, everything is changed. For the first time though, I believe that positive things will come out of this. I know what I want (and what I don't want) now. And I can tell you that I've had enough of crazy chicks who aren't in touch with their emotions. 1
kztar Posted March 5, 2016 Posted March 5, 2016 you're not alone. SMH something similar happened to me. It's men and women. I think people are afraid of commitment these days.My ex fell "out of love with me" aka he never really loved me but w.e. im sick of this generation.
Author Kevin_D Posted March 5, 2016 Author Posted March 5, 2016 you're not alone. SMH something similar happened to me. It's men and women. I think people are afraid of commitment these days.My ex fell "out of love with me" aka he never really loved me but w.e. im sick of this generation. Yep... To be fair, I wasn't head over heels either, but... I hate that people are so quick to throw things away. I mean, I was with my ex for 7 years. She was with her ex for 4 years. Of course both had our views on how a relationship should be. You'll have to compromise and listen to the other person. Sadly, this is beginning to hurt my chances of having a successful relationship. I invest less and less since these things seem to happen when I least expect it. And my lack of emotional investment, cause women to feel unappreciated. Though some might find it attractive, the ones who want a sense of security might pick a guy who they can control more.
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