Ex girlfriend refuses to talk/see me but talks to parents?

[Guitaristangel]

In my previous posts, I had a nasty break up. I used every excuse in the book to hold onto the hope that she is going to come back. Well, today I found out that my ex still talks to my parents. Today is my birthday and I hear that my mom told me she couldn't make it to lunch because she had "work" that day. A month earlier, she states again that she will be out of town that week as well.

 

Well to me this is fishy since I didn't say happy birthday to her birthday since I decided to go NC. At that time I was completely emotional and did everything I could to forget her. I am about 6ish or 7ish months of NC with her and personally do not let her words affect me anymore.

 

Basically, I am at a point where I'm sick of the games she's playing. She apparently loves and misses my family and vice versa. What I do not understand is she wants to only visit when I'm gone to work.

 

My question is, why is she doing this still? She verbalized and she told EVERYONE in our social circle that she is moving on but still talks to my parents and my inter social circle? She has found another group of friends that are nail technicians, an occupation that she HATES but had to become one in order to make money, but does not hang out with ANYONE in my social circle but only to my best friends.

 

I'm sick of this and told my parents profusely to refuse her calls and they have started too. I miss her still and want to reconcile with her but at this rate it turns out that she rather play games and I am SICK of it

 

 

Do you guys have any insight on what's going on? Do action speak louder than words?

[Emilia]

Hold on. Explain the first paragraph again please. Who can't make lunch? Your mum? How is that linked to your ex?

[Guitaristangel]

Hold on. Explain the first paragraph again please. Who can't make lunch? Your mum? How is that linked to your ex?

 

I meant my ex. Sorry.