The truth and it isn't pretty but let's hear it.

[harassed]

Three years ago I land my dream job. Even though it was just admin, i had an opportunity for stability and growth. I could have eventually retired from the company. I had dreams that day when I walked in and three months later I walked out with no dreams. I am crying as I write this. There was a man there who was interested in me and i got scared to show my real true self and I quit my job and tried to get distance. It was really hard to do because the entire time, I felt like wow this guys girlfriend is really lucky! I knew I'd never be anything close to normal so I kept at it and he ghosted me yet drove by my house, rang the door bell and did a few things that were making me feel like he still liked me and made it harder for me to move on. I kept trying and I was arrested. I was arrested when I got the lawyers involved and tried to get a no contact.

 

Then I received the disclosure and he altered emails to try to stop me from being charged and then I felt worse.. I was like oh god I have to forget this guy existed! Trust me, he's a dream especially when you read on !

 

So then I was on POF and i ran into his friend who then proceeded to set up fake accounts which made me message him more to stay away from me. I explained everything. how unhappy I was and I wrote him tons about why he has to leave.

 

My computer was hacked and I was surrounded by a set of harassment and stalkers. There were the online typos that would make fun of me. The nice guys who would try to meet with me and the guys who would be friends with me online and try to help me. The cruel make fun of me ads made the other ads unbearable and my life was really taken down by both the charges and my life in general. I became ill and quite dilusional as I suffer mentally. It might be a personality disorder but either way I knew I was no catch.

 

so then i left and moved to another province after my charges were withdrawn as all this continued to follow me and i started to look into it and found it was him all along. Then I told them if he can't talk to me as himself then not to do this because the hacking and monitoring was messed up and I was angry because some times these guys were cruel..

 

They did neither and there was a life coach who told me to connect with a man and to forget about this but then I learned he was also involved and when confronted started to make fun of me.

 

This guy wrote to me for months online about our passionate love and connection. then send more fake people to try to lure me to them and mean while there was more hacking and stalking.

 

I moved to Kitchener here and found out that our internet, phones, everything was hacked and I was being monitored and i started reading about my life online. They started to put me down as a person..

 

The helpful ads were what kept me attached and I felt like this guy was still perfect and all this **** got confusing and I end up inside and online and he called me an *******. They sent someone from to my gym and told me I need to get over him..

 

All this time I remained crippled that I couldn't be with him and later he said he wanted to move on as he didn't want to move forward with me and I was left alone and abused.. I will edit this but this is a start.

[ExpatInItaly]

OP, I'm having some trouble understanding what exactly happened and who all of these alleged stalkers are.

 

What were you arrested for? One does not get arrested for contacting a lawyer.

 

Also, you say you suffer from a mental illness. Have you sought treatment? Not from a life coach, but from a doctor?

 

Where exactly were you reading about your life online, and who is this person who showed up at your gym?

 

If you feel you are being threatened, go to the police. Oddly, I am originally from the Kitchener-Waterloo area and the police there will listen to you.

[basil67]

I too am having trouble making sense of your post. Writing with a bit more background detail might help you get more replies.

[harassed]

I just don't know how to put it in words. The bottom line is these guys were hacking me. They were always watching me and putting me down and when I went to make friends or try to move forward they were putting me down.. My life suddenly became about weather or not I was an approval to date Jose Gomez and I was never good enough and it became so much I stopped leaving my house. I stopped doing anything!