Jabron1 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 You got it Jabron.... smart man! For other reasons too....but yeah if a man can rock our world.......emotionally, physically and everything in between...she ain't going nowhere! Looks are definitely secondary to that. Game isn't necessarily good or bad. It just depends on the person using it. A guy with game who really likes a girl can blow her mind - week in, week out. When I was 18/19, I used to attract stunning women without much effort. But, they would soon get bored. I went through a string of relationships that would last between 1 and 3 months. Now, in my twenties, I have no problems attracting or getting them to stick around The problem for me now is that I don't think I could handle doing that throughout the lifetime of a marriage. Women seriously tire me out. I once had 5 or 6 women on the go, and it nearly gave me a mental breakdown. I'm being serious. I got really confused, stressed out, and had to keep a notebook. I'm never doing that again I tried living with a girlfriend once, and that was a disaster too. I think I like my own space to much.
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 I think that resembles you though right? The reason I say this is because I think it goes GAME > LOOKS > MONEY. Then I realised that just reflected me I think game is paramount. I used to be very good looking as a kid (probably an 8). But my game sucked, and I made a lot of stupid mistakes. I used to rely on my looks too much. Now I'm still good looking (probably a 7), but my game is good, and I have the ability to attract more women than any other time in my life. Money is secondary to game because real desire can't be bought. A guy with money and no game will get played by women. Looks are secondary to game, because, even if a guy is great looking, a women won't stay long if a guy isn't rocking her emotions, or is a crap lay. I think have either looks, or money. But game is the indispensable one of the three. That's just my perception though. I think you are right to an extent. You think Donald Trump, Howard Stern are great lays? Do they got game? It's their STATUS and MONEY that gets them top tier women. What you say is true if you're dealing with average women.
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 The problem for me now is that I don't think I could handle doing that throughout the lifetime of a marriage. Women seriously tire me out. I once had 5 or 6 women on the go, and it nearly gave me a mental breakdown. I'm being serious. I got really confused, stressed out, and had to keep a notebook. I'm never doing that again I tried living with a girlfriend once, and that was a disaster too. I think I like my own space to much. I can relate 100%
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 You got it Jabron.... smart man! For other reasons too....but yeah if a man can rock our world.......emotionally, physically and everything in between...she ain't going nowhere! Looks are definitely secondary to that. That's BS. A woman who is 9 or 10 wants the money and looks, not the ugly dude who knows how to give them orgasms.
Jabron1 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 What you say is true if you're dealing with average women. If I showed you some pictures I have of girls I've dated, you would change your mind about that! You think I settle for average? Like a 5 out of 10? Not even in my league, mate. Probably wouldn't pass the boner test
Jabron1 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 That's BS. A woman who is 9 or 10 wants the money and looks, not the ugly dude who knows how to give them orgasms. Well, I was seeing an Asian girl a few years ago who had a sugar daddy. I got more access than him, and all I offered were orgasms...
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 (edited) That's BS. A woman who is 9 or 10 wants the money and looks, not the ugly dude who knows how to give them orgasms. I never said ugly .... dude ...I said looks were secondary, and would appreciate your not being so presumptuous as to tell me what attracts me and what works for ME. Thanks a bunch! And I didn't vsay just great orgasms, either, please read again. I said rock our wold *emotionally* and physically. There is a lot more to a RL than having great orgasms, Jesus. Edited March 10, 2016 by katiegrl
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 I never said ugly .... dude ...I said looks were secondary, and would appreciate your not being so presumptuous as to tell me what attracts me and what works for ME. Thanks a bunch! And I didn't vsay just great orgasms, either, please read again. I said rock our wold *emotionally* and physically. There is a lot more to a RL than having great orgasms, Jesus. Stop using Jesus in your posts. It's very offensive.
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 Well, I was seeing an Asian girl a few years ago who had a sugar daddy. I got more access than him, and all I offered were orgasms... Again, depends on the tier of woman. This Asian woman wouldn't be able to land a top tier guy but probably an old man with money while having a young buck like you to f-ck.
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Stop using Jesus in your posts. It's very offensive. Who are you GOD? LOL I'll use whatever words, terms and phrases I like. If it offends you, don't read. Duh.
Imajerk17 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 The ability to engage a woman's emotions trumps all else. Many guys w money in fact do quite well w women, but it wasn't the money that attracted the women. It was the man's drive and savvy that GOT him the money that also attracted women to him. 2
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 Who are you GOD? I will take this as a huge compliment.
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 The ability to engage a woman's emotions trumps all else. Many guys w money in fact do quite well w women, but it wasn't the money that attracted the women. It was the man's drive and savvy that GOT him the money that also attracted women to him. Then please explain Anna Nicole Smith.
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 Then please explain Anna Nicole Smith. Obvious golddigger.
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 The ability to engage a woman's emotions trumps all else. Many guys w money in fact do quite well w women, but it wasn't the money that attracted the women. It was the man's drive and savvy that GOT him the money that also attracted women to him. Couldn't have said it better myself! 1
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 I will take this as a huge compliment. LMAO ...I didn't call you God, I asked you if "you" thought you were God. . Too funny. Moving on........
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 It was the man's drive and savvy that GOT him the money that also attracted women to him. Not 100% true. There are men who were born into money...
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 LMAO ...I didn't call you God, I asked you if "you" thought you were God. . Too funny. Moving on........ You keep trying to move on yet you keep coming back. No worries, I have this affect on women.
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 You keep trying to move on yet you keep coming back. ---- No worries, I have this affect on women. You keep saying that, but yet you're still alone....clock ticking. Wish you the best though, hope you figure it all out one day.
Jabron1 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 (edited) TS, haven't you been complaining about golddiggers throughout the thread - women only wanting you because of you flash car, etc? That's the sort of reason why I think money is third most important. Sure, it attracts women from a provisioning point of view. But, first and foremost, I want to be the guy that rocks her emotions - not just be a utility. That's the guy who is #1 in her mind. And yeah, sex is a big part of that. Edited March 10, 2016 by Jabron1
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 You keep saying that, but yet you're still alone....clock ticking. Wish you the best though, hope you figure it all out one day. How do you know I'm alone? Miss Been in X Amout of Failed Relationships. I hope you figure it all out one day, too.
Author truth_seeker Posted March 10, 2016 Author Posted March 10, 2016 TS, haven't you been complaining about golddiggers throughout the thread - women only wanting you because of you flash car, etc? That's the sort of reason why I think money is third most important. Sure, it attracts women from a provisioning point of view. But, first and foremost, I want to be the guy that rocks her emotions - not just be a utility. That's the guy who is #1 in her mind. And yeah, sex is a big part of that. That's one part of it - gold diggers... then there are the game players, liars and cheats. All I'm looking for is the right balance, my man --> Someone I'm attracted to and has a good heart. A very hard combo to find these days. That Asian woman you hooked up with... she a good woman? No way! She was a piece you hit and then she went back to the sugar daddy for his money and gave him sex, too. I think Scarface was right: Have the money then you get the honey.
katiegrl Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 (edited) How do you know I'm alone? Miss Been in X Amout of Failed Relationships. I hope you figure it all out one day, too. Because you told us you were alone...hence this thread. And sorry, but I don't consider any of my relationships a "fail". They were successful until they weren't anymore. And even though they ended, each one taught me valuable life lessons...which I take with me into my next RL...and life. So no darlin, that is not a fail, maybe to you it is because you are a very negative person. But not to me. To me it's a win, because I learned something valuable from each one. And yes I hope I figure it all out one day too! Edited March 10, 2016 by katiegrl
Jabron1 Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 That Asian woman you hooked up with... she a good woman? No way! She was a piece you hit and then she went back to the sugar daddy for his money and gave him sex, too. Yeah, but I'm not looking to get married. Back then I was way worse! I was just pointing out that some guy was paying for her rent, and I come along and bang her in that apartment - then raid the fridge. Who got the better of that deal? The guy with game, or the guy with money? I think Scarface was right: Have the money then you get the honey. Isn't that the sort of attitude that will attract golddiggers? Come on man. You're looking for a proper wife - not someone who is looking to cash in on a divorce. Tony Montana didn't exactly have the most blissful of marriages Personally, I would just use the money to back my game. I would keep it hidden until a good few dates in.
AMJ Posted March 10, 2016 Posted March 10, 2016 I kind of want to know what exactly you mean by "game". It seems like you use it to define lots of things. By game do you mean- all the things you do to attract a woman in general? And obviously these things change based on what woman you're trying to attract? Because there's always some level of insincerity implied when talking about game...and I still think, if he's looking to find a wife, he does not want to be insincere. Another story when you're just looking to get laid and have a good time. This may need to be another thread, but...what the hell IS game anymore?
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