SixxChick Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 I can keep this short. I should have known. He proposed to one of my law school colleagues in 2000. While I didn't keep in touch with her, I hired him in 2013 for a job. One thing lead to another, and there we were. Entrenched in a relationship. He was separated at the time and the divorce was finalized in 2014. I actually told him that it might be a good idea to play the field. He was free after ten years. But he told me he loved me. He lost everything and used me for a place to live. It was all a lie. Now I have a rule and I want to know what you think. It's about anyone getting out of a relationship. Especially a marriage. Why should I have tied him down again? He didn't even know what he wanted. Red flags aside, how much time would it take after a divorce or break up to trust someone again? Lots of questions that I should probably drop. Just putting it out there.
basil67 Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 You've made your story so short that it doesn't make sense. But in the effort of giving you an answer, I met the love of my life when I'd been separated from my husband for two months. That was 20+ years ago and we're still together and very happy.
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