Nicole11 Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 (edited) Hi everyone, first of all this is 3 of us, we are comforting one, her BF has been pulling back and I guess the fade out break up, its been HELL to watch her go through this! But now today, Loverboy knows she is going to be around a lot of guys this coming summer when she summers at the lake, (lake A for discussion) a few who have hit on her previously. So now he is concerned about that!! He is totally a pig. Its like he doesn't want her but doesn't want anyone else to have her either!! She was invited to spend the summer at another place, (lake B) - disclaimer: WE are not any where near her financial bracket, neither of us have the luxury of 'summering' anywhere but our offices! But getting back to the Lake A thing, Loverboy brought up two guys who had hit on her at Lake A, and he said "You know they are going to try to screw you", she is not interested in either guy like that, so its not likely anything would happen. So get this, within 10 minutes of her hanging up from a call with Loverboy today, a friend of Loverboy, a close friend of his I may add calls Jen and tells her she should go to Lake B and goes on and on about the merits of lake B and guess what??? Loverboys friend who called her? HE will be at Lake B!! WTF??? We all about fell off of our chairs!! I think it was Loverboy wanting her around a close friend to spy on her. Any thoughts If any of you have some advice that may help, please jump in. We are sitting here drinking wine and naturally bashing the **** out of him. I told her hell yes you go to Lake A or anywhere YOU want! We also think she may benefit from some professional help to get her confidence back up. But what the hell? Why is he doing this? Edited March 12, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language~T
preraph Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 He's having someone test her. She should just dump him. He'll keep anyone from coming around and if he doesn't treat her right or want her, he's a waste of space in her life.
Author Nicole11 Posted March 4, 2016 Author Posted March 4, 2016 We have been telling her to seek some help, she is so confused by his actions, I must say I am too. I don't get this. You make good points but if he wants out, which by his fade out crap he is pulling, why would he care if she moves on?
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