Author Eli Bounty Posted March 4, 2016 Author Posted March 4, 2016 Well guess what guys! My ex unblocked me and I spoke to him, and anyways he said that he was mad at me and needed some time off. He apologized for that night and said that he would want to see me! This is so nuts! Well I'm glad that he unblocked me, I feel a little better. But this is seriously sooo nuts what he's doing!
Rockdad Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I would say posturing and developing his control of the relationship. Better question is what are you doing ?! 1
Author Eli Bounty Posted March 8, 2016 Author Posted March 8, 2016 Yeah I should be doing anything with him anymore. I haven't seen him since then. His apology was so lame- he doesn't even understand how insulting what he said was. He didn't even say why did he insult me except that hw was mad and it just came out of his mouth. He didn't have any better explanation. I haven't seen him since then, he 'tries' to get back with me. But his trying is just contacting me- whenever he says something, its so obvious that he has no clue of how disrespectful his words were. I tried to explain him, but I think that people like him will always be that low and simply can't improve.
Rockdad Posted March 8, 2016 Posted March 8, 2016 You have been around this guy. Research Narcissistic behaviors. I was once so married to this personality or I should say survived. The best advise I ever heard how to deal with personality was run the other way as fast as you can and don't fall for their game and ploys to bring you back in. If a narcissistic personality person really wants help with it for themselves, even with professional help it's difficult and unlikely they will over come it. And that's IF they see the need and want help. Most do not because they are the center of the world and they are always correct in their logic. 1
Author Eli Bounty Posted March 9, 2016 Author Posted March 9, 2016 Yeah thanks for your input. Ummm I was suspecting if he's a narcissist. He makes me feel like I don't look good enough for him, while in fact to be realistic I do look good. Everything revolves around him and he's full of insecurities. I also had a feeling like he would be able to exchange me for another person in a split of a second. The intuition is always right. And yeah, I am running away.
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