yung_lover Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 My ex boyfriend and I have been involved for a while and a week and a half ago I began my no contact period without any explanation. After a day he blew up my phone. I didn't respond. Two days later he texted again. Four days later he looks at my snap story and says a mean comment that he was way better than the guys who looked at my snap story? The next day he saw my selfie on snap chat again and snap texted me a laughing emoji. That night he kept calling me over and over and over and texting me over and over. I was finally getting over him as I really had been working on myself. I picked up and he asked if he could come over and I said no and he said well I'm coming over there anyways. And I told him to respectfully leave me alone and that we can another time (just to get him to stop). Two nights ago he did this again and I finally gave in and he came over. Needless to say, we had sex and NOW I FEEL SO AWFUL. I wish I never caved in. I thought he would stop talking to me and last night he called me to tell me about his family and it was about a 10 minute conversation. I just wish I never caved in... I liked being in control of my life and now he's probably happy he got it with me one more time. Think he'll be back around? I want to start over no contact but what if it doesn't get him to blow my phone up or anything since he got what he wanted? He said he missed me, I told him I didn't miss him. Should I send a last text message? I have yet to send him a text. And now multiple thoughts have been running in my head since that night like "Has he had sex with someone else in that span of time?" "Is he talking to someone else?" "I wonder who he's snap chatting?" etc... Please help.
katiegrl Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 This is precisely why you block your ex after a break up. To avoid this type of shyt happening. No don't text him. Just block him now and move on with your life. Lesson learned.
mightycpa Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 I want to start over no contact but what if it doesn't get him to blow my phone up or anything since he got what he wanted? Please help.Why exactly are you doing this no contact thing? It sounds like you're playing games. That's not very nice and it won't work either. 1
d0nnivain Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 Had you broken up when you went NC? or did you just disappear? If you just disappeared, you already know that doesn't work. Tell him you regret the sex, that you are broken up & you need him to respect that. Then you go NC AND most importantly you block him from all of your social media.
Redhead14 Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 My ex boyfriend and I have been involved for a while and a week and a half ago I began my no contact period without any explanation. After a day he blew up my phone. I didn't respond. Two days later he texted again. Four days later he looks at my snap story and says a mean comment that he was way better than the guys who looked at my snap story? The next day he saw my selfie on snap chat again and snap texted me a laughing emoji. That night he kept calling me over and over and over and texting me over and over. I was finally getting over him as I really had been working on myself. I picked up and he asked if he could come over and I said no and he said well I'm coming over there anyways. And I told him to respectfully leave me alone and that we can another time (just to get him to stop). Two nights ago he did this again and I finally gave in and he came over. Needless to say, we had sex and NOW I FEEL SO AWFUL. I wish I never caved in. I thought he would stop talking to me and last night he called me to tell me about his family and it was about a 10 minute conversation. I just wish I never caved in... I liked being in control of my life and now he's probably happy he got it with me one more time. Think he'll be back around? I want to start over no contact but what if it doesn't get him to blow my phone up or anything since he got what he wanted? He said he missed me, I told him I didn't miss him. Should I send a last text message? I have yet to send him a text. And now multiple thoughts have been running in my head since that night like "Has he had sex with someone else in that span of time?" "Is he talking to someone else?" "I wonder who he's snap chatting?" etc... Please help. a week and a half ago I began my no contact period without any explanation. -- What do you mean "without explanation". How long were you seeing him? Why did you want to end it? It's disrespectful to do that to someone you've been dating for a while. You don't just implement No Contact out of the blue unless they did something egregious, and even then I'd let them know. Has he had sex with someone else in that span of time?" "Is he talking to someone else?" "I wonder who he's snap chatting?" etc... -- Who cares? You're ending it with him. Unless you did this to mess with him and find out just how much he cares about you. It doesn't matter. If you implement No Contact, it means you dont' contact or respond for as long as it takes for them to move on. Or, you block them. Otherwise, you're just playing with them and yourself.
Apparition Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 My ex boyfriend and I have been involved for a while and a week and a half ago I began my no contact period without any explanation. After a day he blew up my phone. I didn't respond. Two days later he texted again. Four days later he looks at my snap story and says a mean comment that he was way better than the guys who looked at my snap story? The next day he saw my selfie on snap chat again and snap texted me a laughing emoji. That night he kept calling me over and over and over and texting me over and over. I was finally getting over him as I really had been working on myself. I picked up and he asked if he could come over and I said no and he said well I'm coming over there anyways. And I told him to respectfully leave me alone and that we can another time (just to get him to stop). Two nights ago he did this again and I finally gave in and he came over. Needless to say, we had sex and NOW I FEEL SO AWFUL. I wish I never caved in. I thought he would stop talking to me and last night he called me to tell me about his family and it was about a 10 minute conversation. I just wish I never caved in... I liked being in control of my life and now he's probably happy he got it with me one more time. Think he'll be back around? I want to start over no contact but what if it doesn't get him to blow my phone up or anything since he got what he wanted? He said he missed me, I told him I didn't miss him. Should I send a last text message? I have yet to send him a text. And now multiple thoughts have been running in my head since that night like "Has he had sex with someone else in that span of time?" "Is he talking to someone else?" "I wonder who he's snap chatting?" etc... Please help. I am confused. If you wish to do NC you shouldn't be worried about what he will do. At first when reading your post I was thinking you wanted him to leave you alone and you no longer want to be with him but at the end of your post you are worried if he had sex with someone else and wondering who he is snap chatting? I don't get it.
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