lifeis Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 We've been dating for 2 months and we see each other every weekend sometimes during the week. He initiated hanging out except for a few times when I asked him to go out with my friends or when I wanted to take him out for dinner for his birthday. We only talk a few times during the week over text. I'm 21 and he's 24. On Saturday we were supposed to go to dinner but the next morning he told me he "fell asleep." I was skeptical but I just told him I wish he told me he was tired beforehand since we had plans. He said I never texted him back about confirming the time, but I did and he claimed to have never gotten the text. We argued for a bit that day but we haven't talked since. It's been 4 days since then and I don't know if I should reach out first or just not say anything.
MidwestUSA Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 Do not reach out. He's put in no effort, why should you? 1
Shanex Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 He does seem a bit like a crybaby. Let him reach out to you, there are always more or less valid excuse for not going on a date. Personally i think falling asleep sound a bit sketchy, and arguing about that was a tad odd on him. 1
Author lifeis Posted March 3, 2016 Author Posted March 3, 2016 He does seem a bit like a crybaby. Let him reach out to you, there are always more or less valid excuse for not going on a date. Personally i think falling asleep sound a bit sketchy, and arguing about that was a tad odd on him. This is the longest we haven't talked so now I'm worried. Should I just wait and if he never says anything just move on?
Shanex Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 This is the longest we haven't talked so now I'm worried. Should I just wait and if he never says anything just move on? My guess is he will reach out to you again. But for now if he is sulking how mature of him. Wait a bit more, if he never says anything ever yes it's best to move on and not get attached to guys like that, imo.
ThisisIt606 Posted March 4, 2016 Posted March 4, 2016 We've been dating for 2 months and we see each other every weekend sometimes during the week. He initiated hanging out except for a few times when I asked him to go out with my friends or when I wanted to take him out for dinner for his birthday. We only talk a few times during the week over text. I'm 21 and he's 24. On Saturday we were supposed to go to dinner but the next morning he told me he "fell asleep." I was skeptical but I just told him I wish he told me he was tired beforehand since we had plans. He said I never texted him back about confirming the time, but I did and he claimed to have never gotten the text. We argued for a bit that day but we haven't talked since. It's been 4 days since then and I don't know if I should reach out first or just not say anything. He sounds immature. Who "falls asleep" and then doesn't feel weird and bad about missing a date? He should not only reach out to you but volunteer some other date to have dinner/see you. Do you have your old texts? If he pulls anything else you should screen shot the time that you confirmed and show him. (but ONLY do that if he complains some more... bc that can be a bit too confrontational 1
Author lifeis Posted March 4, 2016 Author Posted March 4, 2016 He sounds immature. Who "falls asleep" and then doesn't feel weird and bad about missing a date? He should not only reach out to you but volunteer some other date to have dinner/see you. Do you have your old texts? If he pulls anything else you should screen shot the time that you confirmed and show him. (but ONLY do that if he complains some more... bc that can be a bit too confrontational He apologized but then was upset cause he thought I didn't reply to his text. Basically miscommunication or he was lying.
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