Dente Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 My ex has been driving me nuts we been apart for 1 year 6 months. She in another relationship for a year and has been contacting to work things out but never leaves the relationship. I had enough and told her to let it be this is making me miresable but if nothing is going to happen then lets just let it be. Her respond was "you have no idea whats going on" "so you made up your mind" "this is what you want" for a whole year shes been lying to me about leaving. If it hasnt happen it never will.... I blame myself for her to string me along all of last year i was blind but this year im stopping myself from this ridicoluos situation. I was very rude to her when she was telling me the same old crap. Im just wondering why she keeps insisting... Shes lining me up ? Or just playing me any responds welcome thank you. 1
PegNosePete Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 She is just playing with you. NC her, it's the only way you'll ever move on. 3
BlametheIrish Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 Block her on everything and count your blessings that you didn't end up with a person like her. The type of girl who strings an ex along while in a relationship is bad news. 2
Zahara Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 "You know women, mate. Like monkeys, they are - won't let go of one branch until they've got hold of the next." I came across that last night in an article about relationships. Your post reminded me of it. She's played you for far too long. Who cares what her intentions are because there has been ZERO results. If someone really wants to be with you for all good intentions, they wouldn't do this to you. Block her. You've wasted too much time on nothing. 1
Author Dente Posted March 3, 2016 Author Posted March 3, 2016 Yes i agree with you that is wasted time. She says that she cries every night for me and dont want us sad wants us to be happy i told her if she wants me happy then stop contacting me but still does. I took her for grant when i was with her i was ok with her decision to go with another person that can treat her better. I cried to her face to face not to win her back but to apologize for taking her for granted. But it doesnt give her the right to do this to me.. Everytime i tell her that we could have easily solved our issues post break up she tells me you had 8 years too. My respond to that is we were together not you with someone else! I told her i let you be with this guy because i thought you derverse better she says to me "I DONT WANT THIS GUY". I told her im not doing this string along crap. Im not waiting for you and if you cant resolve your problems then let it be! We broke up if you dont understand what that means google it! I honestly dont care anymore. Im a bit heal then what i was the reason im posting this is i just wanted to know her pyscology. 1
smudge21 Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 I honestly dont care anymore You sure? I know it's often too hard to admit, especially when the ex is such a crazy loon, but we do all hold onto the past far too often. Maybe deep down, there's a small part of you that is holding onto that hope, and whilst she keeps coming back, you are letting her by always responding. I'm as guilty of that as anyone, complaining about something bad someone is doing to me but also allowing it to happen. Block, delete, remove all forms of contact from her and do not respond should she find a way through. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 Any more feedbacks please. Why the hell are you talking to her a year and a half later? I mean, c'mon dude, why would you do such a thing? You have wasted a year and a half which you could have used to recover properly indulging this crap. Stop wasting time and go No Contact -- block her even. Otherwise you'll continue to stay in limbo. And yes, you definitely do care still. 1
Toodaloo Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 Why the hell are you talking to her a year and a half later? I mean, c'mon dude, why would you do such a thing? You have wasted a year and a half which you could have used to recover properly indulging this crap. Stop wasting time and go No Contact -- block her even. Otherwise you'll continue to stay in limbo. And yes, you definitely do care still. Exactly. Get tough tell her to f off and stop contacting you. Then block delete and ignore. If she carries on then tell her you will go to her boyfriend and show him her messages and tell him good luck. 1
Author Dente Posted March 7, 2016 Author Posted March 7, 2016 Would it be immature to block her on instagram? 1
Satu Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 snip My ex has been driving me nuts No, she hasn't. You have been driving yourself nuts, by allowing her nonsense to be a part of your life. Solution = Obvious. Take care.
Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Would it be immature to block her on instagram? No - it would be sensible. Block her instagram, facebook, twitter and every other social media thing you have these days. Block delete and block. 1
Zahara Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Would it be immature to block her on instagram? Self-preservation, Dente. There is nothing immature about protecting your emotional and mental self. Immature would be two people playing cat and mouse for 18 months. 1
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