Toodaloo Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I'm sorry..I broke the rule and looked at her Instagram. BIG MISTAKE. The guy I suspected she had feelings for left heart comments on her picture, and vice versa. I'm right back to how I was..broken and fuming. I knew there was something between them. I want to demand answers but I can't. This is why you delete...
Zahara Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 I'm sorry..I broke the rule and looked at her Instagram. BIG MISTAKE. The guy I suspected she had feelings for left heart comments on her picture, and vice versa. I'm right back to how I was..broken and fuming. I knew there was something between them. I want to demand answers but I can't. She went from waaaahhhh, I'm so heartbroken to exchanging hearts with another guy in days. There's no need for answers. She needed you to help her transition, she needed attention, an ego boost until she established herself with another guy. That's all. This is a good thing. You got the eye-opener you needed. Hopefully this keeps you NC.
Rockdad Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 Yes, you hurt her ego when you deleted her. She thought you were her loyal puppy dog who would always be there for her to trample on whenever she wanted. Now the worm has turned and she doesn't like it, she is biting back by being nasty to you, hoping you'll fall back in line. Obvious bait; don't fall for it. Well that answers something for me that I never understood. I eventually blocked my ex years ago off FB and my cell phone. She called my office (unable to block her cell from my office system) having a full blown fit. I swear there was a mushroom cloud in the area of her house.
Latino4Lyfe Posted March 7, 2016 Posted March 7, 2016 This sounds a lot like my ex as well, getting angry when something happens that was unexpected for her. Basically this girl sees/saw you as option B in the case that "Instagram Guy" doesn't work out and when she saw her social media compromised due to you deleting her, she panicked hence she's now angry. Don't give in to it man. At the end of the day, if she does want you and ACTUALLY want you back and set everything right and talk, she will reach out the proper way. The chances of this actually happening though are slim unfortunately. Keep up with your NC and remember your not alone here.
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