LampingSoy Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 (edited) First thread I've ever posted anywhere kind of weird, but I've met this girl back in December and I thought she was some stupid girl that doesn't know anything but boy was I wrong. She's super sweet, smart, funny we hung out after work with a friends and I showed a lot of interest and she reciprocated, we got super wasted and ended up back at my place. I know she wanted me and she was barely concious but I didn t have the heart to take advantage of her. Long story short we started texting and we started hanging out for about 3 months now, and we would see each other fairly frequently. Earlier on it started off at 1-2 times a week and now it's at 2-3 sometimes 4. She said she's never dated anyone like me she thinks I'm the nicest sweetest guy that she's dated and that's because she's had abusive relationships in the past and has told me very personal things that would make most guys drop her like a bad habit, like how many guys she's been with. After her telling me that, it made me think I could be just one of many, and I don't want to be tunnel buddies any anyone. She's told me that she's changed since she's moved back from New York, she said she feels more like herself and she's happy. She said that she really likes me and she has a good time with me when we go dancing, chill in the pArk, go for walks, drinks, dinner and she's happy when we hang out. But after she went on this trip with 2 of her "friends"not too long ago one of them is a girlfriend who has her husband and the other friend is a guy friend. Apparently they slept in the same room but beds are supposedly separate but alcohol was a part of the trip, there have been nights where she would just get blacked out drunk and well I don't know very many of her friends. She's only told her friends about me I've never met them and now a part of me is telling me that she could be taking advantage of me, Shes here taking cAre of her folks and she has mentioned moving back to New York but she said she wasnt sure and she was supposed to move back last month but she stayed but her mentioning that she thinks she's gonna move back doesn't make me feel good. It's like I feel like things are different between us after that trip she took I feel like she could be dating this "friend" of hers as well she's so gorgeous and she can line up dates without even trying if she really wanted too, I sound really retarded, we aren't exclusive, but without ever really knowing it I got emotionally invested so I've come to a point where some insecurities have made me feel like a terrible person for thinking worse case scenario about this girl, she even called me out on it In a jokingly way. Sorry about how everything in this post is all over the place, I kinda just write what comes to mind. Any insight or comments, new perspectives would be awesome, I guess I'm just trying to save myself from a lot of heartache and I'm probably freaking out for no good reason haha. Thank You all! And for the record I'm not seeing anyone else Edited March 2, 2016 by LampingSoy
smackie9 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 You had about 3 months to ask her out and work towards a relationship. If you don't have confidence in yourself, she is or already has moved on.
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