awkwardandhandsome Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 So I met this girl off tinder and she seems really nice, we texted like crazy sat,sun,man. Then yesterday she never replied to my text message but replied to my snapchats. I fell asleep around 4pm and she texted me at 6pm saying "heyy what are you doing right now" I replied at midnight before I went to work "I was asleep whats up" I also didn't reply to her snapchat at 5pm. Then at work I saw she blocked me on Instagram, and still she still hasn't reply to my text... My question is Did I piss her off?... What should I say? Sorry? Im totally confused and if anyone can explain I'd really appreciate it! thanks.
AMJ Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Too much social media! Just talk to each other. Dial her number, leave her a message, talk to her on the phone.
ribeto Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 She was embarrassed that she woke you up so she cut all contact? People are weird. Don't obsess over it.
SunnyWeather Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 a good example of what is wrong with the OLD/social media platform, and the devolution of genuine communication. The bottom-line message being that people are expendable, like objects. 2
Easyguy14 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 She was embarrassed that she woke you up so she cut all contact? People are weird. Don't obsess over it. Yea just forget said lady. She probably just lost interest and decided to just go on. And if she's young, even more so.
smackie9 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 She's one of those......who, if she doesn't get your full undivided attention, she feels you don't value her. That spell immaturity. You are better off not having to deal with someone that acts like a juvenile for not answering a text immediately. Be done with her. 2
TunaCat Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Did you ever actually ask the girl out or was everything strictly social media related? If you never actually asked her out, she probably got frustrated with you and decided that if you weren't going to ask her out, she was done with you. 1
truth_seeker Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 OP, you met her on Tinder. She probably matched with 50-100 guys. Don't take it personal... most of the women on there are head cases to begin with... 1
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted March 3, 2016 Author Posted March 3, 2016 She's one of those......who, if she doesn't get your full undivided attention, she feels you don't value her. That spell immaturity. You are better off not having to deal with someone that acts like a juvenile for not answering a text immediately. Be done with her. Yeah Its just weird because we were having some serious conversations those 3 days, She said like "I'd rather talk to you about this in person" I was going to ask her to go get lunch but I thought it was way too early? Yeah I'm not heart broken at all its just makes me crazy thinking about it lmao.
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted March 3, 2016 Author Posted March 3, 2016 Did you ever actually ask the girl out or was everything strictly social media related? If you never actually asked her out, she probably got frustrated with you and decided that if you weren't going to ask her out, she was done with you. I got her snapchat, then she snapchatted me lets text, Then we texted for straight 3 days and I think she was hinting at like hanging out/date, but I thought it was just to early and would be weird? Is that weird lol? any advice?
fitnessfan365 Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 (edited) This is a girl you haven't met in person yet right? If so, all it is at this point is words on a screen. Don't invest energy in women you haven't even had dates with. For future reference, there isn't really a time table on how long you have to wait to make dates. As long as I've been doing online dating, I've always had actual dates to meet in person within 24-48 hours of first making contact online. Show confidence and ask them out. Edited March 3, 2016 by fitnessfan365 1
iphone_user1 Posted March 3, 2016 Posted March 3, 2016 OLD, ****ing OLD. Many girls there are craaaaazy, seriously, don't try to understand what happened. They get too much attention there, so you are just one more guy in a loooong list. I've had enough with OLD, been in your shoes many times.
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted March 3, 2016 Author Posted March 3, 2016 This is a girl you haven't met in person yet right? If so, all it is at this point is words on a screen. Don't invest energy in women you haven't even had dates with. For future reference, there isn't really a time table on how long you have to wait to make dates. As long as I've been doing online dating, I've always had actual dates to meet in person within 24-48 hours of first making contact online. Show confidence and ask them out. It kinda makes sense how she kind said "I'd rather tell you this story in person" I thought I should at least text her for a week? Anyway I'm going to just ask tmrw and if I get denied/no answer... Oh well at least Ill know!
Author awkwardandhandsome Posted March 3, 2016 Author Posted March 3, 2016 OLD, ****ing OLD. Many girls there are craaaaazy, seriously, don't try to understand what happened. They get too much attention there, so you are just one more guy in a loooong list. I've had enough with OLD, been in your shoes many times. Yeah I agree, I thought its kinda weird she unfollowed me because I didnt text back lmao so your right, at first thought she was normal lmao but there already a sign if I didnt text back she deleted me off instagram lmao
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