goal12 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Hello everyone,,I was dating a girl for a year plans to get married and kids all that,,, i was going throw a ruff patch with my self and broke up with her few days later i realized i made a mistake and rang her to meet up but she said she had kiss someone then refused to met up,,the following days i got mails on how good her new man is the one she is dating even sending me pictures of him in her bedroom and telling me when she had sex,, i don't understand why she would try to hurt me and move on so quick when she loved me so much i cut contact because of the rubbing the new man in my face was to much any advice i know its my own fault 1
d0nnivain Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 You hurt her. She rebounded into him & is using him to hurt you. She is not a nice person. Block her. Reflect on your mistake. Work on healing & move forward in your own life. 2
Author goal12 Posted March 2, 2016 Author Posted March 2, 2016 Thank for the reply,,i was always loyal and never raised a hand to her just mind boggling,,ye i have mate after cutting it now she blocked me on facebook when i didnt rise to the mails she sent me 1
kztar Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 love is not enough. I cheated on my ex and he broke my heart and till this day he has no idea I did this. The truth of the matter is, you have to look at your actions to understand the reactions. Move on OP and go NC. You made a mistake and now it's too late. 1
Redhead14 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 You should read the numerous posts about what happens when a man who says he loves a woman pushes him out of his life every time they are stressed about something and won't discuss what's happening. No woman wants to be pushed off a man's plate when he stressed. A man who really loves her won't push her off the plate, he will make room for her. A man can't just check in and out of a woman's life when it's convenient for them. Well, they can, but the woman doesn't have to accept or tolerate it. She's dealing with it in an immature way and will likely hurt herself more, but at least, she's trying to move on and she should because she will be worrying all the time if she comes back about if/when this will happen again. Sure, people get overwhelmed sometimes and need a little time or space. But a healthy person will say that to their partner and will be specific about how much time they need and if they love the person it's only a few days. If it's a month, see ya buddy. If they end it because of that and think they can just pick up where they left off, good luck wid dat. 4
Author goal12 Posted March 2, 2016 Author Posted March 2, 2016 Thank you for the replys ,,I understand fully it was my fault,,just came as a shock as it was so quick thanks for the replys i will have to live with it 1
Satu Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Thank you for the replys ,,I understand fully it was my fault,,just came as a shock as it was so quick thanks for the replys i will have to live with it In the longterm, you are better off. You've seen that she is capable of deliberate emotional cruelty. You are better off away from that. Take care. 1
Author goal12 Posted March 2, 2016 Author Posted March 2, 2016 Suppose you are true satu ,,another fight down the line could happen again i wished her all the best but she started saying then your the only man i loved and wont love another and other stuff just dont undertsand 1
TheScientist Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 It's always better to talk to your partner than just ending things on a whim. Some women will go into hiding and cry for the whole weekend/year - others will go out and try and make themselves forget/feel better with a new bit of meat. Next time speak up, don't push away. Good luck 1
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