vivi_angel89 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 (edited) So my bf (26yo) of 6 months just told me (26yo) he lost interest in me, that he is no longer attracted to me and that he sees me as a friend. He said I'm the best gf he ever had but that our relationship is no longer "fun" or "exciting". Apparently, Im too good of a gf and I guess that's boring?! Considering his history, he is the type of guy who enjoyed chasing unavailable girls. When I met him last year, he mentioned several times how he liked the thrill of chasing girls. He always seemed to go after the emotionally unavailable ones and the bad girls who would play him. Also, he is suffering froma bad depression. He doesnt like his job, his current living situation and is always unhappy. He said his depression might be the reason why he feels the way he feels about me but he is unsure. Another thing I should mention is that when we met, I didnt want a relationship and I told him. Therefore, all we did together was drinking and hooking up. However, he didnt give up and he tried to date me more seriously until he told me how much he liked me and wants us to be exclusively in a relationship. I accepted and made our relationship a priority and tried to be the best gf possible. I feel like that's when things started going downhill. Anyways so after what he just told me, I dont know what to do. Should I try to save my relationship or break up? He has many great qualities that I like about him but I'm not sure if it's worth the hustle. He agreed on trying to save our relationship but I'm not sure if there's anything we can do? If I should give it a try, how can I rekindle romance? Or should we try a 1 month break and see how that turns out? Edited March 2, 2016 by vivi_angel89
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