Lolabola Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Had my first fight with this guy and haven't spoken to him and he hasn't spoken me in 3 days. I really just want to make up now I feel miserable. But I'm scared to speak to him because I'm worried he'll tell me his done. I texted him when we were fighting to block me of everything so he can be done with me. He didn't block or delete me. It was a stupid fight which both of us did things and weren't mature about it. And I'm embarrassed for being childish. But I'm sitting here the last few hours panicking thinking what to say. He is the only man I cared about that I've ever fought with. How do you make up after a fight? What's the best way to go about it?
preraph Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Well, first you have to stop reacting emotionally and with panic and desperation and just think about it and decide whether you were right or he was right or you were both wrong. If you were right and it was anything you'd never like to see repeated again , whatever you were mad about, then do NOT apologize or that's the behavior you have accepted. If you were wrong, apologize.
Maggie4 Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Don't pour your heart out and don't apologize until he is ready to hear you. You try to reconcile when he is still mad, you force him to react badly to you, then you also react badly to his reaction. Also makes you appear unstable if you do 180. So take smaller steps.
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