Finnlay1981 Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 I've been mates with a guy over the last 15 years or so we have recently got back in touch as both going through separations at same time he has always seemed pretty keen on me and recently we went out for dinner drinks etc and ended up kissing fooling around no sex though. During the night out we were talking about any love interests we had and he said he had an American girl coming over to stay for a while who he'd met travelling but it was all just a bit of fun. The next day he was texting asking when we could get together again. He kept persisting over a few weeks - friends who read the texts all said 'he's very keen' anyway we went out again and it was fun and he was opening up about his recent separation which he doesnr normally do but we had a great time again got on well and stayed at his house - no sex. The next day he said 'its a shame we couldn't have got together 15 years ago its such bad timing now as I have that American girl coming to stay so next time we se each other we can't do this which is a shame as I've really enjoyed it. It's just bad timing' .. Anyway slightly disappointed but that's life since he has been texting me as usual but I don't know whether to just ignore him now?! Help thanks 1
JLove7 Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 If that girl isnt his girlfriend and its all fun then why cant you guys do this again? Does he mean just for the duration that she is there or in general? I can understand if he felt some regret that you guys didnt make it happen long ago but this current situation with this other girl i would keep an eye on if you wanna stay in touch. Make sure you protect yourself from getting played 1
Author Finnlay1981 Posted March 1, 2016 Author Posted March 1, 2016 Hi thanks for the response. I have no idea if he meant never again or just whilst she was there he was really vague and when I tried to ask about it he kept saying 'I haven't got a clue I've no idea what she's doing or whats going on' he just basically kept saying to me 'it's bad timing why didnt it happen for us 15 years ago? We can't do this next time we see each other' I don't know if something I did that night put him off or what bit on the other hand he didnt want me to leave the next day.. And has been texting asking me how my day was etc since so it's all a bit weird... 1
JLove7 Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 Yea i would be cautious. Even if it indeed isnt serious with them, if he really wants you he will pursue you and not make it obvious that another woman is taking priority over you...thats like saying "i wanna date you but there is another girl that im casually dating that i dont wanna mess it up with" ....doesnt sound too sexy to me 1
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