Is he still interested in me after first date :(

[truth_seeker]

You can be butt ugly with loads of zits dripping with pus and two inch scars all over your face - the guy is still going to tell you you are the most beautiful chick he has ever seen.

 

This is some kind of special breed of sc-mbag to pull this off because I don't care how horny I am, what you described is gross.

[frus69]

OMG this is so obvious and I cant believe no one has mentioned it.

 

 

Here is what's in his head: "Oh this girl is insecure. She'll be an easy target. She's just pretending to be bi*chy and say no sex but that's just a lie obviously she wants my attention. I'm going to try some sweet talk and persistence and I reckon I can bang her easy. I'm not going to be bothered keep asking her out . I'm just going to send some casual texts from now and see if I can get in her pants when Im horny and cant get anyone else. "

[strawberryshortstack]

OMG this is so obvious and I cant believe no one has mentioned it.

 

 

Here is what's in his head: "Oh this girl is insecure. She'll be an easy target. She's just pretending to be bi*chy and say no sex but that's just a lie obviously she wants my attention. I'm going to try some sweet talk and persistence and I reckon I can bang her easy. I'm not going to be bothered keep asking her out . I'm just going to send some casual texts from now and see if I can get in her pants when Im horny and cant get anyone else. "

 

 

Actually, I think this is exactly what has been said, multiple times, with different wording.

[frus69]

Actually, I think this is exactly what has been said, multiple times, with different wording.

Oh is it? I saw people say he thinks she's a challenge.

 

 

I'm saying he doesn't see her as a challenge and quite the opposite, he sees right through that she is easy.

 

 

Nevertheless, same conclusion, he is not interested

[Dis]

I went out with this guy which i met online for a first date. I think i look kind of different in pictures than in real life so i dont know if he is still interested in me after the first date but these are some of the things he did during our date.

 

1)There was eyeliner mark on my hand so he gently hold my hand and rub it off

 

2)He was all over me and keep touching me whenever we're on the escalator. For example, he put his hand on my shoulder and pinch my cheeks. Afterwards, I kissed his hands and then he kiss his hand which I kissed on earlier

 

3)He grab my waist, hold my hand when crossing the road and gently massage my hand while walking. He give me a side hug too while walking and rub my head

 

4)He gave me this intense stare whenever i'm not looking. And even though i told him not to look, he still do. I tried covering his eyes when he keep staring at me too.

 

5) When we were laughing at something, he would side me a side hug and i realised he tried to sit closer to me.

 

6) He touch my chin and said there's something but actually there wasn't anything.

 

BUT above of all that, we didnt talk much and he didnt ask much things about me. it was rather awkward and we walk silently LOL.

AND

he left me for awhile to talk to his friends whom he bump to while another friend of his accompany me.

 

After date he only messaged me "be careful when you go home bby" Afterwards, I said sorry for not giving him a kiss since i promised to give him one before we met so i said:

 

Me: "Sorry i didnt give you a kiss!"

Him: "why? i was waiting for it"

Me: "cos the time is not right"

Him: "haha ok no problem"

Me:"Next time when we meet okay!"

Him: "hhahah ok. So there's still next time. why?"

Me: "Because i feel bad. That is if you want to go out again though"

Him: why u feel bad bby. ya ofc why not"

 

 

He didnt intiate another date but i did instead. That kind of shows he is not that interested in me? But he did mentioned and ask if we can french kiss one day after the date. Is he only interested in being flings?

 

Appreciate every single reply. THANK YOU

 

Oh god this guy just wants to get in your pants...RUN!!!

 

1). He didnt introduce you to his friends...in fact he left you to go talk to them.

2). He didnt ask you anything about yourself (He doesnt care about u, he just wants sex)

 

****Also I would like to point out something very important. By posting pics that are not accurate representations of how you really look is not a good thing to do. Its doing you and any guy who goes out with you a disservice. If you posted these pics because you dont like how you look, you need to change your mind set. The right guy will like you for how you really look, the wrong guy will not (or will use u for sex like this guy)

And if I were a guy and went out with a girl who didnt look like her pics I'd be pissed. I would feel lied to. Update your pics and have confidence and self respect and do not go out with this guy again. Dont even txt him again either. Close that door.

[Dis]

This may sound like a small thing....but IMO calling her "baby" before even meeting speaks volumes.

 

Who does this? A guy who wants to set up a false familiarity/intimacy so that when you finally do meet..... you feel all comfy cozy with him and have sex with him.

 

Oh no, he knows what he's doing....he knows exactly what he's doing.

 

I 100% agree with katiegrl. I once went out with a guy that called me "babe" on the first date. He turned out to be a real winner...only wanted sex. Guys that called you babe and baby right out of the gate are bad news.

[Dis]

^^^This and stay away from guys who call you "bby" after the first date.

 

You had ONE date, you are not his "bby* ....jesus.

 

Player ploy for sure.

 

And instead of obsessing how HE feels about you, you should be questioning why you like him!

 

IMO, his behavior was gross...and I would have been outta there.

 

Next.

 

Good point. I've recently learned this important lesson. Stop asking yourself if he likes you. Ask yourself if YOU like him. Just because a guy wants you (in a good or bad way) doesnt mean you should automaticlly want him back. Be choosey!