Hell Yeah Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 Hello It's been 5 or 6 months since the BU No contact since middle of October, I deleted her number and removed her from all my social accounts which I have been fine with. Been getting on with my life and taking each day as it comes My ex's kids use my Netflix account all the time (yeah I know.....) But that doesn't bother me, as that doesn't hurt me I said they could use it. Then yesterday morning, I get a notification from Twitter that my ex has sent me a follow request on Twitter, as I have a private account....I initially got upset as I was bothering myself with the question of why??? Me being an idiot I accept it..........then I see later yesterday evening that she revoked it. God knows why, maybe to see what reaction it would cause. Why do people play these games??!?!?!?!? Pathetic as was I for accepting it, dissapointed in myself!! Sorry I needed to vent
smudge21 Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 Who knows the why, just ignore it and carry on being the better person. The more you think about it, the more you'll begin to hurt all over again and she's not worth that. You said it yourself, mind games. Don't play them with her. 2
Author Hell Yeah Posted March 1, 2016 Author Posted March 1, 2016 Thank you appreciate that , I will carry on as I have . Just needed to vent so thank you mate
loveiswar101 Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 Your moving on, so keep going and don't look in the rear view mirror.
ExtraSpice Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 Hard to say why people do these things. Maybe it is curiosity, maybe it is to see what type of a reaction they can get. Maybe she just wanted to see whether you would accept it or not. But yeah good to just carry on. Chalk it up as a small lesson. Sometimes that can be hard to do as our mind tends to concentrate on these things.
SoThatHappened Posted March 2, 2016 Posted March 2, 2016 Another valuable lesson to block/delete/ignore. Her being intrigued, guessing, pissed, upset, sad, whatever she gets from blocking/ignoring is much better than what she just did. She probably was just tugging at the leash, maybe looking for an ego boost, who knows. Silence goes much farther than any type of response sometimes. Anything short of, "I screwed up and want you back.", does you no good. Keep moving on.
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