Kaotic Dizaster Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 [color=darkred][/color] Hi all .. I really need some insight from someone .... Sorry if this gets a little long but I need to explain it all ... I have been single for about 2 and a half years and never have really done the whole dating thing .... Let me start at the beginning now .... I work in this lil small town bar , I have been there for a lil while now and I have never dated nor really liked any of the customers , as in dating material , hell I haven't really been very attracted to any men for quite some time for what reason I am not sure . lol Anyhow... Last week this guy I knew came in with a friend of his that I had never seen before and he caught my attention immediately , which surprised me , we chit chatted a lil bit and they left . No biggy ... right ?! Well about 2 hours later they came back to my surprise ... and stayed til closing . Which was cool . He seemed interested and I figured OK if he came back the next night then he had to be interested because he had never even been to the bar before , at least not when I have been workin . The next night comes and I found myself anxious to see if he would come back ... and he did ! YAY!! Only bad thing was I was so busy I couldn't even talk to him , but he was givin me those sexy lil smiles . A while later he said they were leaving but would probably be back later . I found myself watching the door constantly hoping he would be back , well 2 am came around and I gave up ( I have been disappointed in the past needless to say) . Just as I decided to say Oh Well he walked in the door . Needless to say I was pretty damn happy by this point . He asked me what I was gonna do after work ... well at 3 am what else is there to do but go to breakfast ?? He said he had already ate but if I wanted he would cook me breakfast , and had made an airplane out of a dollar and flew it to me and said it would tell me how to get a hold of him , he had wrote his number on it .. and by this time I was so interested in finding out more about him I agreed . And I be damned he really did make me breakfast . We stayed up til 7:30 am just talking and he told hme how he thought about me all day and couldn't wait to see me ... I thought that was so sweet . We did kiss a little but nothing to out of line ... When I left he said to give him a call later that day ... so I did and he didn't answer so I left a message with my number ... ends up he was catchin up on his sleep since we didn't sleep the night before . He did call me back and ask me out to dinner , something new to me . We went and had a drink afterwards , played pool and then went outside and talked for quite a bit and then he gave me a hug asked if I should call him or he should call me , I told him he could call me and he asked the latest time he could call then he asked if it was still alright to come into the bar , and of course I said yes .... and we parted ways . That was just Saturday night ... Now my question is ... Is this how the whole dating thing starts ? I know that probably sounds pretty silly , but it has been so long and this man has really caught my attention , which is a hard thing to do and he says he is happy it was him that did and the issue of sex hasn't even been brought up , which seems like a good sign that he may truly be interested .... Just let me know whatcha think ?? Sorry this seems long but I had to explain it all ...... all input appreciated. Thanx bunches!
ConfusedInOC Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 Yes and read my link below on LOVE MUST BE TOUGH to make sure you start off on the right foot.
BigB Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 Sounds like a pretty normal start to me. Sounds like you want to take it slow? Make sure you tell him that when the time is right.
Fetish 2 Posted June 13, 2005 Posted June 13, 2005 haha sounds like this guy is fun. Take it at your own pace. Play the game a little...don't see each other too much or anything to start off with otherwise you'll both get bored easily...r if u wont get bored you risk him getting bored. Just take it easy and keep your head screwed on ya..most of all have fun! And yes! It does sound like the atart of a dating thing! hehe
Author Kaotic Dizaster Posted June 13, 2005 Author Posted June 13, 2005 Thanx so much for your replies ... I know it probably seemed silly just to ask that but in the past the guys I did get involved with always seemed to immediately want more and stuck to me like glue I think that is why I decided not to date for a while and the whole attraction to guys thing didn't happen because the come on lines just make me ill ... lol And the way this guy is acting is refreshing but yet scary in a way to me because I am so not use to this . But it is very nice , I figure I will see him at work tomorrow night before he calls me just to see if anything is different or something .... I will be keep posting on updates if ya all like ..... Thanx so much again!
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