DrewM68 Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 Hi everyone. I'm new here. What a fabulous site! Some background. 15 years ago I was in a one year relationship with a woman. It lasted a year and had many highs but many lows too. She ended it and we've barely spoken since despite seeing each other in town. On Friday she showed up in my favourite coffee store arm in arm with her boyfriend ( she is 50, she would be late 30's ). The moment I looked up she broke off the hand in hand thing. She mouth hello but didn't use the word audibly. The grabbed their coffees and headed to a table. But they then sat side by side. Not face to face. I would never do that. Face to face wins. I looked up later and her knees and legs weren't facing him. They were facing me. Anyway, I spent 10 minutes with a newspaper then got up to leave without looking over. But as I left I spied a couple in know sitting in another part of the store. So I went over to catch up. My ex and partner got up to leave ( I could see in my peripheral vision ) . Clearly he never looked over as he doesn't know me but my ex did. She had to been looking for me as I was no where near the door! So the question is.....am I reading too much into the signals. Or was she unnerved. I'm a bit clueless at body language but I say she was on edge , big time! Any feedback would be interesting!
CarrieT Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 Bottom Line = She is an "EX" for a reason so what does the rest matter? 2
Author DrewM68 Posted February 29, 2016 Author Posted February 29, 2016 Carrie How true ! I walked into that one. Maybe I was thinking about it too much ! 2
Alamo657 Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 Eying exes while out on a date with her man ? Seems the type of woman who gets bored in any relationship and then wanna try new grounds to spice up her life.
smackie9 Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 I think everyone is reading waaaayyyy too much into this. It's obvious she is just curious. She may have been on a second date or something and didn't want to interrupt it by chatting with an old flame. I'm sure next time she sees you she will say hi and try to catch up...nothing more. 1
Author DrewM68 Posted February 29, 2016 Author Posted February 29, 2016 Alamo - you might be on to something. I reckon she's been through 7 relationships ( or maybe 6 ) since I dated her 15 years ago. Including 2 kids to 2 different fathers. Not good! Smackie - I'm curious that's all
Erik30 Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 I agree, you're reading too much into this like overthinking their body language and how they acted. Actually, to me it seems like you were more interested/curious than her since you noticed all these little details about her date. I think she was surprised to see you there, maybe making her a little bit uncomfortable.
Alamo657 Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 Alamo - you might be on to something. I reckon she's been through 7 relationships ( or maybe 6 ) since I dated her 15 years ago. Including 2 kids to 2 different fathers. Not good! Had lots of experience with that kind of women. They always want what they do not have, and get bored with routine. Neglecting your current BF for the attention of other guys is typical of the unfaithful women.
Randomlyrandomme Posted March 1, 2016 Posted March 1, 2016 You probably surprised her. Leave her alone. 1
Author DrewM68 Posted March 1, 2016 Author Posted March 1, 2016 Thanks for the feedback Fear not, I'll give her a wide berth. Just curious!
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