GTR King Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 (edited) Dating shy girls... Ok so joined match.com last Thursday spoke to girl within 10/15 mins of joining... Like her profile and she seem interesting she lives about 38 mins away from me.. Been talking since then.. Her profile says she is a shy girl but is bubbly & chatty once she get to know you... Got her number on Sunday and been talking on whatsapp since.. when I text her the convos are usually good with some short words etc.. No kisses yet but she uses smily/wink faces sometimes.. but the vibe i am getting is she is very interest but is quite shy and sometimes don't know what to say etc... We have date Wednesday evening... How should I handle this?? Edited February 29, 2016 by GTR King
Jabron1 Posted February 29, 2016 Posted February 29, 2016 Shy girls are often inexperienced girls. They require more romance. You should still lead, like on any other date, but you should be a bit softer and not challenge or mess with her quite so much. Light flirting is the way to go. The really tricky part with a shy girl is when you try to get physical with them. They can be very hard to read. Generally they won't stop you from escalating, but they won't give you clear green lights either. So just go slow, and be mindful of her body language.
Author GTR King Posted February 29, 2016 Author Posted February 29, 2016 (edited) Ok thanks for the advice she seems funny & bit flirty in messages but dose show that she is shy at times and bit nervous.. So best I go slow and not rush things etc. I gonna meet her and see how it goes & see what she looks like (Hopefully same as her profile picture) her body type was listed as average. I don't know how shy she is tho will see on Wednesday. So far we have few things in common We both like Marvel Films Italian food Pizza Theme Parks Cats Shopping in Super dry/Hollister watching tv. Batman/Superman Films Star Wars Films That's a good start but will see how things go Edited February 29, 2016 by GTR King 1
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 (Update) We went on a First date (Wed 2nd March) She was about 5-10 mins late (Traffic) We went for a drink I Bought 2 (Cokes/Pepsi) and we chatted for about an hour and a half (Good convos and she talked thru the whole date) She did most of he talking. At end of date we Hugged each other then she asked what I was doing at the weekend and said I would deffo love to see you again. I text her thank you for a lovely time etc.. She replied and said I hope you get home safely and deffo meet up again as had a great time.. I chatted to her (Whattsapp) for a few days then suggested to meet up (Weekend 12/13th March) she said she was busy but will let me know so talked a bit more... 17th March I texted her (My work mate suggest I say this) Me: Sorry for the late reply lol you sound like a really busy lady lol. I know this is the 3rd time of asking but are you up for a 2nd date? I don't wanna seem like I am harassing you xxxx Her: Yeah of course when was you thinking? Me: How about this sunday? xxxx Her: Sorry for the late reply been at leaving drinks. Sunday err could do. Me: Thats ok no problem yeah u wanna go Frankie & Bennies? xx Yesterday (19th match) Her: Hey Me: Hey you ok? xxx Her: Yeah I'm ok Just haven't been very well been fun bed most of the day today. and how are you? Me: O dear not good I am sure I am sure you will get better soon Apart from the football I am good thx xxxx she replied then I replied (Heard nothing back as she went to bed) Is she only using me as a text buddy? Is she really ill and will see me when she is better? I had another date since seen her (With another girl) I am not expecting anything
Agron1 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 That devise you tap on can also transmit voice. I know most just tap, but the voice feature also works great. Call her. 1
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 You saying I should call her? I am not good at ringing people (If I know them well I am fine) is she interested in me or not?
preraph Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Don't score her texts by whether she uses imoges! There are people who have more dignity than that, you know:laugh:. Don't just text drivel. Don't text all the time. And switch over to calling her soon. She sounds nice. Don't expect her to get all sexy over text or phone calls.
Jabron1 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 She was about 5-10 mins late (Traffic) Women are often late . I expect it. Anything under 20 minutes or so is no big deal. She did most of the talking. Good At end of date we Hugged each other Not so good Go for a kiss, everytime. The whole date should be about building up to kiss her. You're there because you find her sexy, not because you want to hear her opinion on the new Marvel movie. I text her thank you for a lovely time etc.. Don't do that. You took her out. She thanks you. she asked what I was doing at the weekend and said I would deffo love to see you again. Another chance... which you are killing with your feminine text-game. I haven't time right now to pore over these texts, but I will do it if you want me to. Just know this: you text her to say something funny, be flirty, or for a date request. This girl seems cool, but you're messing it up. 1
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 I am 25 (26 IN August) She was 27 (8th March)
abby_tx Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 If you were older, I might say to make a call. But if she's shy, doing that would probably overwhelm her. I could be wrong.
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 She is a shy girl. She last logged onto whattsapp last night (Hasn't read my message or replied) Should I let her make the move for 2nd date (I have suggest 2nd date 3 times so far)
abby_tx Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 She is a shy girl. She last logged onto whattsapp last night (Hasn't read my message or replied) Should I let her make the move for 2nd date (I have suggest 2nd date 3 times so far) If you've mentioned the date 3 times, yeah. I'd let her be the next to bring it up. 1
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 1st Yeah deffo would love to meet up 2nd I am seeing a mate this weekend let u know 3rd Yeah sounds good when was you thinking? will let her make the next move
mortensorchid Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 I don't know if this woman is shy or not based on the exchanges here, but I get the impression that she is a bit socially awkward and that she is not that interested in you. I have had to do a lot of work on myself and it showed me the way to happiness when being in The Game. And this woman is showing you that she's not that interested. I think anyway. Some have said to me that I am far too harsh or I have a certain tone about me that says "enter if you dare", but I believe in facts above concepts. And this woman is saying to you that she's not interested in you, best to move on.
Author GTR King Posted March 21, 2016 Author Posted March 21, 2016 Mortensorchild you are so right thank you so much for the advice She never to back to me since last message on Saturday. She was not keen on me (After the first date) but didn't know how to say I don't fancy/like you so strung me along & said yes when I asked for 2nd date. will leave her to it. If she comes back to me for another date will see what happens etc But will move on for now
Author GTR King Posted March 23, 2016 Author Posted March 23, 2016 (edited) Update Why would she say this?? Hey i get that u don't want to talk to me anymore and that's OK I just want to say I'm sorry I know u prob think that I didn't want to meet up with you again but that isn't true its just been a busy few weeks plus I was ill last week still not 100% but still anyway have a awesome life it was nice talking to you. I won't message you anymore so goodbye. Is she messing me about? Edited March 23, 2016 by GTR King
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