YWGMan Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 (edited) So we have been broken up for almost 3 months now after almost 3 years in a relationship LDR. I have never talk to him within the last 2 months and a half. He keeps texting me many times now since we broken up. I know that he is with someone already. How do I deal with this? The last message were just plain "Hi" nothing else. How do I respond to this text? Do I answer him? What would be the best message to say? Edited February 27, 2016 by YWGMan Wrong grammar 1
ksol9 Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 Mine broke up with me 1 week ago. I wish he was contacting me. We went into nc. I haven't reached out to him and he hasn't reached out to me. I wish I had your dilemma of not knowing what to say, but this isn't the case and I don't think it will ever be. You have to follow your heart and do what's right for you. Do you want to be with him?
Author YWGMan Posted February 27, 2016 Author Posted February 27, 2016 Mine broke up with me 1 week ago. I wish he was contacting me. We went into nc. I haven't reached out to him and he hasn't reached out to me. I wish I had your dilemma of not knowing what to say, but this isn't the case and I don't think it will ever be. You have to follow your heart and do what's right for you. Do you want to be with him? My heart says yes I would like to give him another chance but my mind says no since he basically betrayed and abandoned me. I just don't know how to respond to this messages he is sending me. how do I respond to a "Hi" message it's pretty meaningless and ambiguous.
central Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 You decide on no contact, and block any calls or texts. Once you no longer have to think about him or responding, it's easier to move on.
CarrieT Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 Block his number so that you don't even see the texts. Do NOT respond, regardless...
ilovemefirst Posted February 28, 2016 Posted February 28, 2016 Don't respond. Him saying" hi" is not an apology or i made the biggest mistake of my life by lettin you go..plus, you deserve better than that..love yourself enough to see that my friend
Simon Phoenix Posted February 28, 2016 Posted February 28, 2016 I'd go full block. "Hi" messages are worse than no messages at all. Block them so he can't send that crap -- especially if he's with someone else.
Author YWGMan Posted February 29, 2016 Author Posted February 29, 2016 I absolutely feel like total **** right now, im at work and could not concentrate. Why do I feel crap when I am the victim here, I was the one who got rejected and abandoned. Why do I feel so bad not answering any of his text messages/emails? It's the 3 month mark today since he dumped me. I think I am the one who is more emotionally invested in the relationship that is why I am more hurting and now he has moved on and happy with someone else. Sorry I just have to vent my frustrations. I want to forgive myself and the past so I can totally move on and be happy again. I feel total crap. Negative thoughts since I woke up this morning
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