bu2002 Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 I really can't deny this anymore. It's been building and building and it's a little more difficult to deal with each day. But I realized I'm exhibiting all the behaviors one has when one likes a co-worker. I sit right by her, our stations are connected and we work within the same department structure. Thankfully, we're busy at work right now and often we're in different meetings, so that helps with not smothering her. I just don't have that kind of time. We're friends and text somewhat regularly. I think she's somewhat intrigued by me but not sure I've received enough obvious signs she's interested in that kind of way. She notices when I get a haircut and compliments me, or if i smell nice. She throws out the "hey you" response in text, which I don't typically get from girls. But that's about it. That's not enough for me to tell anything though. Is there an effective way to tell her how I feel without making things a potentially awkward work environment?
Saf17 Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 Never a good idea to date someone you work with. Even in different departments, unless you absolutely see each other 0% of the time. If she seems flirty and happy to hear from you and you think there are signs, invite her to something that could be seen as a friend or date type thing and just see how it goes. I recently invited a girl to a day trip I was going on my own to (an oceanarium and grabbing lunch) and she declined. However, she isn't sure if it was a group/friend thing or as a date so nothing was ruined. Weirdly, she has invited me to grab drinks with just her one evening next week. My advice would be to do something similar. Be light and breezy and give yourself wiggle room
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