Mjm1014 Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 (edited) For the past 1-2 months, a girl and I have been hitting it off pretty hard (over the phone since she lives in a different state but is moving back to my town soon)..we had a crush on each other about 10 years ago and have finally reconnected. We've been talking everyday/all day, she tells me I'm perfect for her, and all these years she's been wondering what happened to me.. ..I ran into her father at the airport, and he told me she's really excited to see me soon, and that she has talked a lot about me. It was my first time meeting him too.. One problem. Day one she told me she still lives with her ex (dated 3 years), and that he cheated on her, but she cant afford to break the lease. She told me day one she would never get back with a guy that cheated on her especially with her best friend. She's called me numerous times crying this past month telling me he's being a jerk. I actually felt sympathy for her when she told me some of the stories, so I really want to trust her about this. Anyways for the past day or two something has seemed off..she seems a bit distant, and even said maybe we should stop talking because she doesn't feel adequate for me. I did a little digging and found out that I'm being blocked by her "ex" and it says they are in a relationship on his page, and he has a profile picture up of them together. He mysteriously disappeared when we first started talking, but I was a little paranoid today so I was able to find him through my friends account. Her relationship status isn't listed and I don't see any pictures of them together on her page though, but I do see someone "anonymously" liked all her posts (example: says 13 people liked something but I count 12-so it has to be the guy that's blocked) She's currently on a cruise but am thinking I need to bring all this up with her on Monday. Should I, or should I just run?? My gut is telling me to, but it doesn't make sense why her dad would tell me that if she's actually dating another guy...I literally met him for the first time, and he said she told him all about me. She's admitted she's going through horrible depression so I feel like I need to be careful about this. Before she left port today she sent me a cute text that she will miss me with all hearts next to her text. You think she's playing both of us? Edited February 27, 2016 by Mjm1014
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