PrettyEmily77 Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 I guess for women the sexual attractiveness stock can rise or fall with bedroom skills and dick size, which has to be "found out", whereas for a guy, if all the parts are there and proportioned right, its usually enough... TFY Not speaking for all women, but for me sexual attraction doesn't automatically mean having sex the the guy - I'd need to be sure I won't regret it first and that can only be confirmed by getting to know the guy well enoughbefore he has a chance to display his bedroom skills or dick size.
Emilia Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 It is. I'm not that surprised by the guys responses, but I was under the impression that most women don't really know for a while if they are attracted or not. This thread seems to suggest otherwise. I think to me a lot depends on the man's initial response. If I can see that he is attracted I'll consider whether I am straight away. When it's not obvious to me, I might not consider him for a while. Someone once said that women are attracted to desire and I think that's right - though not to everyone's desire, obviously.
Saracena Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 It is. I'm not that surprised by the guys responses, but I was under the impression that most women don't really know for a while if they are attracted or not. This thread seems to suggest otherwise. Of course we do when we meet someone we're instantly attracted to, that is! For other women though feelings can develop over time and we clearly haven't had enough responses from those who have experienced this. As stated earlier I've never been in this position since I've only dated guys I'm already attracted to. Frankly it would never interest me to do otherwise!
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 I can tell immediately if it's there or "hell no". I never go out with "hell no" guys regardless of personality. Most guys are in the "maybe" category though so I give them 3-4 dates to to get to know them and see if it happens. *this is OLD* In real life, I have had men that I have known for years become attractive to me. It's usually because I never even considered them as a romantic prospect before.
Gaeta Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 I have known both. I have known being instantly attracted and I have known growing attracted over a few dates. I'd say I always turned out more compatible long term with men I grew in than those I felt instantly attracted to.
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