raider09 Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 I hung out with this girl we had a great time. i saw her a couple days later when i saw her again she was receptive she was sitting down then said ill be back shortly after she returned. she decided to leave once more and i decided i would abruptly leave without saying anything did i mess up by leaving her hanging? i decided to ask her to hang out via message but, got no response. i saw her again a week later we had a brief conversation say she seemed receptive should i message her once more to hang out or just a brief message. i been really thrown off by this situation hopefully someone can help please.
yxalitis Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 I hung out with this girl we had a great time. i saw her a couple days later when i saw her again she was receptive she was sitting down then said ill be back shortly after she returned. she decided to leave once more and i decided i would abruptly leave without saying anything did i mess up by leaving her hanging? i decided to ask her to hang out via message but, got no response. i saw her again a week later we had a brief conversation say she seemed receptive should i message her once more to hang out or just a brief message. i been really thrown off by this situation hopefully someone can help please. Hi, First, I think you need to breath while typing, read what you wrote, and edit accordingly. Your post is extremely hard to read, it sounds like you just bashed this out in a few seconds and bashed the "send" key. As to your problem..again, calm down, relax, the only way to know is to message her once more, nothing to lose, right? IF she replies, cool, of not, don't beat yourself up, and don't assume that it was your actions that caused her to go sour, there may have been nothing there in the first place.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 I hung out with this girl we had a great time. i saw her a couple days later when i saw her again she was receptive she was sitting down then said ill be back shortly after she returned. she decided to leave once more and i decided i would abruptly leave without saying anything did i mess up by leaving her hanging? i decided to ask her to hang out via message but, got no response. i saw her again a week later we had a brief conversation say she seemed receptive should i message her once more to hang out or just a brief message. i been really thrown off by this situation hopefully someone can help please. This is confusing - where did you see her? What do you mean, she decided to leave once again? Where did she go? When you say you hung out, what did you do together?
EatYourVeggies Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 This is confusing - where did you see her? What do you mean, she decided to leave once again? Where did she go? When you say you hung out, what did you do together? It sounds to me like teenagers and he is describing events that took place while both were eating in the cafeteria.
loveiswar101 Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 From reading above it seems you just got up and vanished. She probably returned and you were gone. Not good ! Why did you leave ?? Did she say she wasn't returning? Patience? She returned, you were gone, she was pissed off! Try her one more time, if she accepts apologize, move on and don't do it again, if no joy then chalk it up a missed opportunity..
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